Are you jealous of the opposite sex?

All the time all I hear is women saying how men have life easier cuz they don't have periods and blah blah. Guys always say girls have it easier because girls will get treated better and blah blah blah.

yes, men have life way easier 165
yes, women have life way easier 212
who cares, why don't we just view each person as an individual 240
no, men have life way harder 46
no, women have life way harder 64
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  • Piconano

    To be honest, when I was fat, I used to be jealous of men because fat men could get girlfriends and fat girls couldn't even get a glance from a guy. I could recount so many incidences of this at school.

    But let's take my uncle, who is and was fat, dated a really nice and pretty woman. Now, they're a happy married couple, with two daughters. So I really thought fat men received more love than fat girls.

    I'm no longer the fat girl that I was, but I guess I still have that mindset deep in my mind: that men have it better than women when it comes to finding love. I mean, I've seen girls with ugly boyfriends, but never guys with ugly girlfriends. Maybe that's just me, but... sigh. I just feel like, as a girl, I need to keep myself all dolled-up and "prettified" 24/7, because that's what society demands: Girls need to be pretty.

    I'm sorry if I appeared shallow. I just feel that way. Sorry. I do try to keep in mind that it's not which sex has the better life, it's what kind of person that has the better life.

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  • Brittany666

    I'm tired of being a bitch on her period. I mean I love being a girl, except all that other bullshit. I'd like to know once in awhile what it would be like to be a dude.

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  • prorider69

    Who has it easier? I think it depends on the situation...as far as dating, I say its women. Most of my female friends are always complaining about which guy they should choose out of the one the are interested in them...Wow! I wish I had that problem, I have to work like a dog to get a woman to give me the time of day, let alone return a phone call. Maybe I'm just not a very good lady's man thought.

    But when you factor in everything else, I guess its really hard to tell who has it tougher...I tend to focus on the dating part since I'm single at the moment. When it comes to careers I think men probably have it easier though...I could go on and on, but I don't think anyone would read that much.

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  • Duckyduck

    Periods SUCK.

    Then again, having a fat dangling piece of flesh wiggling between your legs 24/7 sucks too... or I would imagine...

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  • Athena56

    I'm only sometime jealous cuz they have a penis...

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  • Fartyr

    I totally wish I was a guy sometimes, it seems they age better and look 10 years younger than women of the same age. Plus they can act silly and crazy and it's totally accepted. They also look great with grey hair. WOmen with grey hair just aren't sexy like that.

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  • 12kc34

    I am personally sick of the sex wars and don't understand them at all. People seem to have a need to say that they have suffered through more or overcome more. What is really dumb is when I am told that my life has been a breeze simply because I am a man. Last time I checked, nobody followed me around all my life rating how easy it was. The quality of someone's life is by an individual basis, and if judged by any other means (race, sex, height, just whatever) then you are just plain ignorant. Everyone is an individual, always has been that way and always will be. Hopefully people will start to understand that and not assume things about people and instead actually get to know them before judging.

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    • bioshock

      i wish i was a woman sometimes so i could feel what a female orgasm is like.. i think i would be constantly masturbating.. (even more than i do now) :)

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    • hellboy333

      ^ Because of feminazis.

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  • Lasci

    Guys... trust me.
    Your lives are EASY.

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  • I think it would be neat to be a guy for a month. But I like being a girl. It's fun to get ready for special occasions sometimes. There's a lot of pressure to look good though. And sometimes I just want to wake up and be ready to go.

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  • crazykittens

    Periods, pregnancies and paid less than men = harder.

    What do men have harder? Nothing.

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    • kingofthedust

      Penis can be quite hard...

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  • LiveLaughLoveLife247

    I agree completely with a select few of you; however, most of you DISGUST me. This isn't penises, vaginas, "JUGS", or sex at all. Every individual is different. Men and women both go through hard times. I disagree that women are treated better completely; some women are discriminated against in our world. However, I'm not saying a man's life is a breeze at all. We all have our own problems and hardships we have to life with. It's life. Shit happens.

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  • Moongoddess:-)

    Guys have it easier just look at societys around the world go to Saudi arebia

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  • deepthought33

    Only sometimes for their penis.

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  • Newguy7777

    mens dicks are always hard, and that sucks

    so it'dbe better to be a woman, plus, we get the added bonus of JUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE! SCORE!

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  • prolovegirl

    I do get a little envious of people with penises. Sometimes I wish I had one. I think it would be fun! And sexy!

    But really, I'm happy to be a girl.

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  • abc14

    random erections can be quite embarrassing and annoying... but when its in private...

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  • iamthewalrus

    "talking about dating and emotional stress, I think guys have it harder"
    ^LMAO
    thatswhatshesaid all the way.

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  • Merkai

    grass is always greener
    and we will collectively never stop wanting
    what we don't have

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  • Greg1492

    Far more men pay to have sex with women, than women pay to have it with men. If you are horny and a woman, you will never go short of sex. If I were a woman, I'd be a slut and enjoy it.

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    • TyLee

      True you will never go short of sex but you will also never go short of disappointment.

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  • dendriticopal

    talking about dating and emotional stress, I think guys have it harder

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  • buttabud

    At lest girls dont have to deal with performance pressure such as loosing an errection, cant get an errection or cum too quickly.

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  • Soulfire45

    But I wouldn't want to be a girl full time because you get periods and crap like that

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  • Soulfire45

    I am jealous of women because they don't have to work as much some don't work at all and stay at home all day! Also a dude only gets a dick a chick gets two tits and a vagina, so unfair. I'm not saying I want boobs or anything I would just like to be a girl for a week and see how it feels and I might get a different opinion on them

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  • yes cuz guys do have it way easier. girls have period with painful cramps, they r the ones who have to go thru pregnancy and labor. they have to do a bunch of things that guys dont.

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  • tapir

    Yes, I have a bit a vagina envy. Having my genitals on the inside, instead of the outside, would be great. Sometimes I feel my penis is a bit distracting.

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  • love.with.<3

    id like to see men deal with periods :)

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    • DiscoDuck

      i'd like to see women deal with periods :)

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  • women have it harder only cuz of periods men have it harder cuz the world is an asshole to them and they have more pressure from otha men and women both have same problems, fitting in, love, someone caring chea breh

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  • Who cares? I'm a guy and I'm gonna live my life without whinin. If you gotta problem with somethin/someone, fix it or stfu!

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  • DiscoDuck

    Jealous of Women, sure that I could use my looks and body to get rich. Other than that I would never want to be someone who has a loose grip on sanity...and tends to sway from sane to slightly insane to out of their mind constantly.

    No Thanks!

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  • purplelemons

    i think that men have an easier life, but i also wouldn't want to give up most of my feminine character to a gender that doesn't really make sense.

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  • girls are there to get fucked have babys and get thrown out with the little shit bag kid

    buahauhuahauahu MONEY IS LIFE

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  • sync380

    I'm jealous that I don't have a pussy to stuff things in. Oh well I still have an asshole.

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  • Nudehusband

    I want to be a casual and please my wife. Then I’m satisfied when I catch her staring. I like to shave for her and look clean.

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  • Kiddles9

    you asked if we are jealous not who has it easier. I am jealous of guys because they get to PEE standing up!! You don't know how bad I want to do that!!

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  • TheGenie165

    men have to shave, but we do to - all our leg and underarms. Way more surface area.
    Men don't get periods or mood swings (as much at least). Men get anrgey easily but we get depressed or sad. Our hormones are constanly changing which is very had to deal with. And there are huge advatages to being a women, my favourite being how close and loyal you are to your friends, and less violence. I love being female!

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  • FocoUS

    Well lets see there are the basical biological problems. I'm weaker than a man, I get period cramps.

    And the social problems, men are 9 times more likely to make more money. If I was a man I could walk alone at night.

    Oh yeah did you forget the fact that an over whelming majority of kidnap victims are women? So if I was a man I get to feel SAFE

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  • elderdragon7

    Id rather be a girl, to think, a girl can take more dicks than a guy. Im straight, but getting fucked by three guys as a girl sounds fucking awesome

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  • TheGirlInTheGreenScarf

    Being a woman is really hard, we have pregnancy, childbirth, periods, having to look good constantly, makeup, fashion, heels, 'sexy' but uncomforatable underwear, shaving, hairstyles, and lots more! Also, we have a few sexist men to put up with, demanding us to cook, clean and have sex. Look at the word c*nt for example. It is the most offensive word in the English language and it means a woman's genitals. Being called a woman is the most offensive thing anyone could call you.

    The only thing men have harder is their dicks.

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  • Money746

    Eather way boath men and women both have it hard but I'm fat and women just completely ignore me so what do I do ask large girls out or stay lonely for ever and die alone with no one but my dog's and my poatey that I write

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  • iamthewalrus

    UH EXCUSE MEH.
    girls have to squeeze babies out of their vaginass.
    which is equivilant to pushing a lemon out of your nose.

    ouch.

    and periods suck.

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  • The sad thing is I think I'd have more fun being a girl if I had bigger breasts.

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  • thetruthandnothingelse

    okay i think we are both important considering im a chick hate periods and hate the hole women have to go through labor idea..but woman have it bad ....but then again imagine not being able to look at a chick without a erection. But as a women i could never get DRAFTED if we go to war wHich is alway good

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  • men don't have periods, give birth, or just sit there during sex.

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  • Qamar

    what about this answer
    No,but without men women would have life way easier

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  • kingofthedust

    Men have to deal with the darker side of life more often than women (i.e. drug addiction, combat, agriculture lol jk, etc.).

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  • mr.M

    i think women have it easy in some areas like on the job..i seen men brake their necks to pick up a paper clip for a girl in the office..in the mean time i'm struggling with a 100+lb starter for a pete and their just watching...lol...no for real i seen women get hired over men that was more cut for the job because they had a nice boobs..i kow it's bad and most women would rather be past up for the job rather then be hired for that reason..but most girls i know 18-29yrs old..know it and use it as leverage..girls i work with know if they need the day off with pay..a lil cleavage for the boss gets them their way..

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  • aemp222

    Both sexes are important in their role. Stop whining about who has it easier. Both sexes have it tough at times.

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  • Complex4

    Both genders are expected to behave in a certain stereotypical manner,and not like just a normal person, irrespective of boy or girl..
    Like men cant cry,(its not manly)
    they get a lot of flak if they are infertile moreso than women...

    a girl cant be aggressive(its ungirly)

    In conservative countries, its pretty hard for women...

    women should be completely covered,
    denied education,
    being treated as mere objects...their only job seems to be like marry and have children

    men (work)
    women (usually housewives)

    still,its quite different, in countries like US and others, here women can fight for their rights..be independent...though even its not completely perfect...

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  • jessicia16

    I think men have it WAY better ... girls get old and basically a pain to everyone often by age 30 or younger ... guys on the other hand are most sexy at 40 and 50's in my opinion and they can basically have a whole new fresh life after a divorce .. women are screwed tho ^__^ im kinda shalow in my views but basically both have the same legal rights ,, but men get to fuk girls and girls get fuked! ... i wish i was born a man rather than the constand stress of beauty and perfection ... guys just do what ever and have almost unlimited girls to pick from

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  • Bellabora

    BOTH SIDES HAVE GOOD ARGUMENTS

    Female |Male
    pregnancy,period,cant | boners,have to shave,
    be promiscuous,feel | cant be feminine in
    pressured to change | any way, have to last
    physical appearance, | long,
    have to deal with |
    sexism, |*We all need to
    |see that males and
    are equal. Stop the
    Arguing!!!

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  • dummyme74

    I am jealous of Ricky Martin's man!

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  • I think guys have it way easier. We get our periods which suck like hell! We go through the labour, or have to get the weight of from being pregnant...
    But I don't think I'd want to be a guy, I like being a girl.

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  • chicken471bologna

    Only because girls can make themselves cum

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  • Girlsrule

    I like being a girl because we get to suck dicks

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    • TyLee

      That is why I hate being a girl lol

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      • wickedwizardking

        What if we eat accordingly? Like return the favor and such.

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        • TyLee

          Then I don't mind at all.

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          • wickedwizardking

            Perfect answer.

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  • I am very happy that I am a girl, thank you very much. I do get jealous of other girls though.

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  • sparrowfeed

    i'm surprised more men than women voted that women have life easier; so i guess it's just a myth that we have it really bad?

    i've never personally struggled with being a woman. i deal with my period and everything as best i can and move on! but i know most women are always complaining about being women.

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  • sparrowfeed

    i'd rather have a vagina than a penis..

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  • violentsonata

    I'm bias today because I have really bad cramps, but any other day I'd say stfu, we both have important roles to play in life.

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