Are you good making new friends?

Yes, of course! I am very friendly and everybody loves me 14
I do my best to make friends, sometimes I make them, others I do not. 19
Mmm... I do not make any effort to make friends, maybe a little bit... 31
I do not need friends and I can live with it. So I don't care at all 13
I'm satisfied with my friends actually, but I am open to make new ones 24
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  • Shrunk

    Not really.. I mean, I can be friendly but then it starts to feel fake as I have to restrain the real me to keep from offending in some way..

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  • Tichi

    I like give off some negative vibe or something
    I dunno

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    • I was thinking about posting a question about this. Good to know I'm not the only one who feels like they have some sort of "anti charisma."

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  • MissDethstar

    No,I can't do small talk which doesn't help. So,unless i'm drunk I'm as charismatic as a dead cat.

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  • worriedgirlhere

    It's not truthful for me to say, "I am such a social person who can make friends with anyone and talk about anything!"

    I'm socially known as "quiet" when it comes to people I am not close with. I cannot come up with random topics so easily as others.

    But what I can say is that I am good at finding out who would be a good friend and how good of a friend they are to me. As long as they are a nice person who is respectful of me, they are cool with me.
    The length of their friendship with me varies and is kind of a different story.

    But overall, we don't have to be friends with everyone. But we can be open to new people who might be the nicest people you'll ever meet. They may or may not be, but you'll never know unless you give it a go.

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  • Holzman_67

    I just treat everyone with respect, look for the good in everybody. Try not to judge others too harshly, see the bigger picture of things. Through this process, over the years I have made friends. I don't get out alot anymore.

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  • PureLikeSnow

    When I have a conversation with a stranger it goes nowhere. The last time I made a new friend was nearly two years ago, so hell no.

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  • darausnicht

    People tend too like me because even though I am out of a lot of their leagues, they seem have this idea that me being bisexual and I do that woth what I always used. When I get confused and just repeatedly say yeah, "you are gay and I am bisexual"... and just try to get them to click before O I get itchy. And get pissed.

    Oddly., friendzooing is oppressive when I it's true.

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  • smallboobies:(

    No I don't. I'm a very awkward person in general and that doesn't help with making friends. :/

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  • MerlinDaMagician

    Im out going and loud but if people dont like me its them that lost out not me.
    I generally am a likeable person its wether or not I like you that counts.
    if you dont like me I wont try and make you.
    ive been told im weird but I prefer quirky.
    all my freinds are weird in their own way.
    I dont like fakes.

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  • Mekkars

    I am me always I am.

    People see me and become my friend some people don't but that's ok maybe i'm not the type of friend they are looking for.

    I don't care if you hate me I am me always truly.

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  • LizardSkin

    Don't have any since high school, don't actively seek them.

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  • Pakulu_Papito_Poppadom

    yes i am god i hav muhc sex with them

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy

    Is it that hard, I mean you can just text me and say hey can I be your friend and I'll be like sure okay and BAM we're friends already

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy

    please tell me baristas count...

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  • disthing

    Yes I'm good at making friends - but I'm shit at keeping them.

    I can do the whole initial part of socialising, building a connection and so on. But I am inept at maintaining a bond, especially with male friends. I honestly don't know how to keep male friends.

    It's actually very frustrating. The only strong friendships I have currently are with ex-girlfriends.

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    • green_boogers

      That's too bad. I like you, btw.

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      • disthing

        Nice of you to say, green_boogers.

        Yes it's too bad... I put it down to bad habits and some social anxiety issues (that kick in after a relationship / commitment is established). I want some guy friends, damnit.

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  • Daugenstein2

    It's hard for me to make and keep new friends because I'm a hard nut to crack. I'm a complex guy and not everyone has the patience and effrontery to understand someone like me.

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  • Riddler

    Depends on the eviorment.

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  • It depends on how much exposure I have to people in general. When I participate in activities that bring me in contact with a lot of other people, I have no problems making new friends. But during times when I don't get out much, I don't make any new friends.

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  • thegypsysailor

    We meet a lot of people, either sailing as we do, or interested in what we are doing. Many are in town for only a few hours on a cruise ship or a week at a hotel. Others, the cruisers on sailboats, we see from time to time and say hi passing in our dinghies, or chat over drinks at 2 for 1 pizza Mondays, or half price pizza Thursdays. So we make a lot of acquaintances, but other than my gf, I haven't made a new "friend" since 2001. For me it's a huge difference and really I don't even know what to call those who are more than acquaintances, yet not true friends.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Nope. Every time I try the conversation eventually winds up dying.

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  • Anime7

    I'd say yeah totally. I mean I don't get along with everyone, but I'd like to believe I do with most people. And if they don't like me, oh well their lost. But for the most part I'd say I try to put myself out there and talk to people.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    *bashfully* No.

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  • gummy_jr

    It's a little tough sometimes but once the conversation gets going and I found out is here their interests, everything turns out fine.

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    • gummy_jr

      What the funk is going on with my keyboard!?

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  • Thexoutcast

    I can easily make guy friends but its hard for them to intrigue me. So either I lose interest or they wana get all sexual and I lose interest or they wana be in a relationship and since I don't want to they lose interest.

    I don't trust females and they are even less interesting. So if I make a female friend I'm terrible at maintaining the friendship. I usually have to make an effort to text or call them.

    But I desire to have friends very much. :/

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