Ask Your Question
Because of my experience, I tend to think attractive people are evil and not a good person. some people think they're always good.
what do you think?
I think I am the opposite, I value attractiveness. Attractive in how competent people keep it together. It is a lot of work to look good
People definitely treat you better when you look like you care about yourself.
I tend to think more highly of more attractive people since they have the common sense to take care of their appearance. They're probably more confident, too, as a result, and I like confidence.
This is a bell curve, though. If they're TOO attractive, like model-attractive, I switch to thinking that's probably ALL they care about and they're probably assholes. On the flipside, I don't consider you to be a worse person just because you're unattractive... unless you're super-ugly, then I have to take a step back and hope you're not going to hit me with lingering resentment.
People I know, I know.
Strangers, I think nothing.
I like to give everyone equal benefit of the doubt regardless of physical attractiveness. I have met some very nice and not so nice people of all levels of attractiveness. People cannot help what genetics they're born with, only how they choose to present themselves (i.e. style) and how much of a factor of their personality they make their appearance. People who get too vain and let their looks (or their opinion of their looks) go to their heads can indeed be very hard to be around, but I've met people like this who I didn't consider to be all that attractive in my eyes as well, so it has much more to do with their personality than their looks. There are arrogant people of all kinds.
Everyone is scum to me, until you prove to me you are worth my respect you'll get no bias/liking from me.
Same. Most everyone is considered an enemy until they have deemed themselves worthy of my respect.
What they look like determines no bias from myself. Soon as they open their mouths I can determine it on a better level.
Everyone is. Retard.
Mostly women, the most attractive and good looking ones, have the most hideous shitty personality.
Dont let the incels get in your head. Women should go after men who can provide. Theres no good reason not to.
No man is gonna give a chance to an ugly girl, unless he has too. Why should a woman give a chance to a broke guy, unless she has to?
Find a rich boyfriend. Pretty easy to do if you're young and attractive and can cook and shit.
I was pretty good looking when I was younger it only helped me with women. It didnt seem to help me in any other way. Men still want men to prove themselves so even if you're good looking it doesnt help you much at work. Maybe in a office environment it would but not blue collar shit that I did. One thing that seemed to get ppl to treat me differently is when I brought around beautiful women with me and people treated me different after seeing the girls I was dating. It was kind of odd but id bring a girlfriend to the party and then everyone was talking to me more and wanting to get to know me like I'm cool or something just because my girlfriends were hot.
Thats all you need to become a millionaire as a woman in your early 20s without ever working.
I would consider myself physically attractive, but I often get treated like a 1-3. People also tend to be horrible and harsher about MY appearance in particular than they are to other girls, other girls will get nice comments on their looks while I get compared to a horror movie villain or a tramp or a man, even when I put in effort on my appearance by brushing my hair and doing makeup and wearing nice clothes, etc I'll still have someone saying "brush your hair it looks like shit" or just generally being mean.
Do your siblings tell you this? Those sound like typical “rude sibling who never grew up” comments.
Mainly it's people on the internet
I'd say yes, but not necessarily beautiful people. Nice people. Personality is more attractive. Beautiful people tend to be stuckup.
I'm considered physically attractive. It's actually been a problem for me in the past, like a sort of soft dysmorphia. People always bring up my appearance to such a ridiculous degree that I honestly don't know where I lay on the "attractiveness scale". I'd say I lay between 7-8 but people have treated me between a 9-10, and I look at the 9s and 10s on television and just can't justify that I meet that threshold of attractiveness, despite this I experience people treating me as such. It was actually a problem for me when I was younger because it made me view my physical appearance as my most valuable asset. I grew up since then and learned not to let my appearance and the reactions people have to my appearance dictate my worth, although I still acknowledge the benefits of being physically attractive. I don't want to seem like I'm doing the "Poor me I'm attractive" schtick, it's definitely a benefit in life, even in areas it quite frankly shouldn't be. I've gotten jobs on my looks alone, which is absolutely ridiculous.
How does my looks fare in relation to how I behave? I'll be honest, when I was young and dumb I definitely exploited it on occasion and was careless. People wanted to impress me to win me over and I let them until I wanted to move on. As I grew older I started taking more responsibility and letting people know when I wasn't interested and pushed them away when they tried to impress me at their own expense in hopes it could lead to something more. My stalker experience was the largest wake up call to how bad situations could get by being so careless and not setting up boundaries.
Attractive people aren't evil universally or can't be trusted, but it can certainly make it easier to be evil. A pretty face can tell some pretty lies, you know? I was never malicious or evil with my attractiveness, just a bit irresponsible and selfish but I'm sure some people exploit their attractiveness to ridiculous degrees of immorality. If someone thinks someone being attractive makes them automatically good, then that's absolutely insane and obviously not true.
"when I was young and dumb I definitely exploited it on occasion and was careless"
This is why I see attractive people as evil probably. Guess I just got the short end of the stick when they're young.
I understand where you're coming from, I really do. Even as an attractive person myself I also would have attractive people attempt the same thing of me but they grew up too as time went on.
I think an important thing to realize is that this is moreso a thing people do in general and not specific to attractive people. Groups of people with advantages will have those that share these advantages within that group but use them maliciously or irresponsibly but also those that are just normal people beyond their advantages.
Unironically a gay guy I know just stopped me to introduce me as their good looking buddy on video call with one of their friends as I was typing this put on a bench waiting for a prescription. I thought I was looking rough today. xD
Copyright 2024 isitnormal.com
All Rights Reserved