Are you ashamed of your fetishes?

I wouldn't use the word "ashamed" about myself, but I'm not comfortable enough to tell all my friends. They don't know that I'm bi, let alone all the types of girls and guys I like and all I like doing and all I think about doing. Even I have trouble conceptualizing everything I like, and it's always evolving.

Is that what it is to be ashamed? Maybe. I wouldn't be offended if someone else made that deduction (although maybe that means I'm not ashamed... hmm). I'm going to vote no.

I'm not ashamed. love being tied up and dominated. And ordered around. if anyone asks about it I'll tell them. no shame! :p

Yes. If you had my fetishes, you would, too.

I wouldn't say that I am ashamed of my fetishes. They aren't harmful to me or my girlfriend. If it's not hurting anyone you shouldn't be ashamed. I just wouldn't talk to my friends and mention, "hey this turns me on."

It's awkward to share those things with people.

Only my girlfriend knows all my fetishes/kinks and I prefer to keep it that way.

I don't know, when I think of "ashamed" I imagine you're feeling guilty and sad while doing it. I'm not ashamed of my fetishes at all, but I wouldn't even think of telling them to anybody. Too weird.

I voted no, but I'm not totally sure what you meant by "ashamed". I mean, even with totally normal fetishes, I wouldn't be the type of person to go and tell everyone I know about it.

Nope!

Yes

I wouldn't say ashamed, but I would say embarrassed. I feel strange and wonder what my girlfriend thinks. She stays pretty quiet, but I do sort of wonder if she's weirded-out.

i'm very ashamed of some of my fetishes and desires.

yes.. I am ashamed... cant tell anyone.. ive lived with my secrets for many years.. ever sence I could jo..

I'm not ashamed of my fetishes at all. I have no problem talking about them on the Internet as long as I do so under a pseudonym. I try to be more careful when discussing them IRL, though. I've only outright told two people, and even they don't know all the details about it. It's not that I'm ashamed but I feel like I have to maintain my reputation amongst friends and family. I'd hate to be known as "that girl".

No, not ashamed at all.

But I wouldn't even begin to divulge those secret desires unless I was with a partner that I completely trusted and was most importantly trusted.

:)

Something weird happened... For 10 seconds, I had a foot fetish...

Sort of. But, truth is, I would never know what sexual arousal feels like without them.

Last I checked I was fetish free.

Honestly, though...I don't even know if I have a fetish - probably not. But if I did I would be ashamed or embarrassed, most likely.

Not ashamed of being Bi.

It a lot harder to tell someone you know "hey! I like bondage and causing pain to others, lets be friends" ... Im not ashamed but its uncomfortable to share it...

Luckily, I don't think I have a single fetish of any kind. :)

I am not ashamed at all and if people think they can tell you what to do, screw them.

Well, I have some fetishes that might be considered weird to some people, but I wouldn't say I'm ashamed of them. I learned to like and enjoy them.

Yes, I am xD. I don't even discuss them with people who I am really close to

I definitely battle shame. I never wanted to openly discuss my strange sexual needs but since they involved significantly heavy men, people always noticed and I have been a subject of laughter, scolding, shame and invervention throughout my post-adolescent life.
Battling self-hatred and emotional scarring is hard.

not at all

Not really. There are ones I wouldn't openly discuss, but I don't have to act on any I don't want to so I don't see the point in making myself feel bad.

No, I'm not ashamed of it at all. We all know I like it when their donkey tails fly in the air and I'm under them enjoying the damn breeze.

Most westerners have no shame. They have sex where and when they want it.

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