Are we gay?

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I am man and I met a German guy who was visiting London. He likes everything I like, from football and even our sense of humour is similar. I'm feeling attracted to him, despite the fact that I have never pictured myself being gay. He went back to Germany but we skype sometimes and I always talk about the girls I am with. One of them dumped me and said I should not worry because I would meet someone nice soon, because I was good-looking and intelligent. I did tell him this story, and he said that even to him, I was charming and attractive. Is he/Are we gay?

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Based on 22 votes (17 yes)
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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    It's easier to come to the conclusion that you're not straight.

    Anything else is up in the air. Are you gay, bisexual, bicurious, some other thing? Only you can work that one out.

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  • konfuzedonee
    9 years ago

    I don't like labels. Love has no gender.

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  • ucipher8
    8 years ago

    You two are either really good friends or your both still in the closet. Or maybe its just one of you thats in the closet (and cant find the light switch). I envy the relationship you have with him, i kind of hope you both are gay cause i think you guys would have a lot of fun as non flaming gay guys.

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  • mlbryan44
    8 years ago

    Suck each other off and you will fall in love and don't forget to swallow his cum.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    9 years ago

    If you're just attracted to this one man I would say you're bi curious. If you find yourself attracted to more men then bi-sexual. Don't worry about the fact that you've never pictured yourself with a man, before they discover their sexuality most gay and bi people don't.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    there 's a kiss in the air

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  • novel08
    9 years ago

    Men, you are in love. You're lucky. This doesn't mean you are gay though, being gay means that you are sexually attracted to cock - it something that you generally realize during puberty when you first start masturbating.

    Anyway, if you want to be 100% sure, watch some gay porn and see if it arouses you. You know, you don't even have to be gay or straight, there are lots of other things 'in between'.

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    I guess it all depends on what you meant by "attracted"?

    So to answer your original question-
    Maybe yes, maybe no, maybe bi-curious.

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