Are these real friends, or should i stop wasting my time?

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So I have a group of people I hang out with, theres three of us. Two of which are Bi. Well awhile ago we got into an argument and stopped talking to one friend we'll call her Sophie, it was because awhole bunch of different reasons. And me and my other friend lets say, Mary were inseperable, we hung out all the time. It was great, but at the beginning of this semester I started speaking to Sophie again because we had a class together, but Mary still refused to speak to her. But eventually through tagging through a facebook photo I got them to start talking again and remembering the old times. It was great all three of us hanging out again and stuff. I was estatic. But since my two friends Sophie and Mary are bi, there always talking about girls around me and im like SUPER straight so I feel left out compleatly. And now it feels like there leaving me out of the conversation alot because I can't relate because im not BI. So its usually really awkward and im just left alone sitting there not saying anything half the time and they don't seem to notice. In fact, today I walked away from there conversation and they didn't notice at all and now are hardly speaking to me. Its heartbreaking and im starting to regret getting them to be friends again because I feel so left out.. is it normal to feel like this?

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  • Thewomanizer
    11 years ago

    completely normal, this reminds me of my two "besties" ( they wernt really good frends though) it was us three all the time at school but eventually I started to feel left out as I didn't really have things in common with them for example I was the good inoccent girl and they were the bad girls, always talking about drugs and piercings,smoking ciggies and wagging school. they used to always hang out with each other after school and did't really invite mee, i felt totally second best and worthless, i got over it in the end as we have all gone our own ways, we did have good memories though, lots of them, all I can say is just be you , don't change to "fit" in cause ul regret it later, people will love you for who u are, being different is what makes u unique, it's hard, frikn hard the feeling of being left out, just remember all your qualities!

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  • cipher
    11 years ago

    try to bring up topics other than girls and see how that goes. if they do not seem interested then maybe you need to hang out with people who have some common interests with you.

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