Are these normal fears?

88% Normal
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I was hanging out with a guy and we both got pretty drunk. We went back to his house and started making out on his bed. I remember him taking off my pants and starting to touch me, but I also distinctly remember telling him to stop and shoving him away. Then I woke up the next morning.
Now I'm kind of scared about what happened! I am a virgin and I don't use tampons, so I'm assuming that I would be sore if we had actually had sex. But I'm not. Just a slight bruise where he'd touched me. :/ I'm expecting my period any day now, but have been living in fear that it won't show up. Are these normal fears? Or am I just super paranoid? I really don't want to have lost my virginity like that.
Waking up half naked really scared me, and I've vowed to never get drunk like that again.

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88% Normal
Based on 8 votes (7 yes)
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  • Silencure
    9 years ago

    Firstly, virginity doesn't exist - it's literally just a concept that society made up. Secondly, not everyone's first time hurts. Thirdly, stress can indeed make you miss your period so don't fret about it. Finally, if you told him to stop, he should have stopped (if he's a decent guy). If he did continue to have sex with you while you were passed out (which is rape), then yes it would've hurt and you would have been in pain. So if you're not in any pain, the likely chance is that you're fine, so don't fret!! It's okay to get drunk and do silly things, just make sure you're safe. Next time, make sure you have a friend with you to help you home.

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  • x1frosty16
    11 years ago

    Perfectly normal to have these fears try not to stress too much though or you can miss your period

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Being stressed can make your period skip a month.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    your period wont show up? Does it pop out to say hello.

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