Are there others out there

You are a disgusting horrible excuse for a human being. You are so sick!!!! Fuck you! Your wife's life is wasted on a total scumbag. Ugh. Poor woman I feel so bad for her for ever meeting you.

"Wife & soulmate" - ? - you are not behaving like much of a soulmate, or husband and you know it. You are selfishly living a lie and hurting her.

So she will find you out, again, and be hurt, again. Change or lose her. Those are the choices.

Get counseling to uncover why you are so easily drawn to these shallow affairs.

I'm actually so very upset after reading that. Beyond upset actually and I never let things getto me, but reading that and imagining what your wife must have been through and for her to even find out that you have been doing it for the last 18 years is beyond...... I have no words to say. I am no one to judge, but what you are doing is unforgivable, and your wife deserves someone else. Someone who will be loyal and will respect and treat her like a wife AND woman should be treated.

You know what's even sad, the thought of knowing that there are individuals out there like you doing what you are doing. Human beings are really disgusting, we have a hole in our hearts that will never be filled even when we have everything, but we are to blinded to see appreciate it, and we ask ourselves why we are forsaken and full of sin.

I feel bad for your wife, you need help or you need to have some bad sex with a desease infested wh0re... alth0ugh that pr0bably w0uldn't make a damn difference because you come off as someone that wouldn't care if they fucked someone over in any way shape or form.

Divorce your fuckin' wife and quit hurting her!

If this is true, your wife has no self esteem and must feel she's too old to get someone else or too afraid of the unknown, of being on her own at her age. You're a piece of shit and should be shot.

it's not that you CAN'T turn it down when it's offered to you, it's that you refuse to. you do NOT love you wife. otherwise you would honor your marriage vow, you know, the part where you said, "Forsaking ALL others."

Be a real man and stop giving your wife's body to other women.

You are not a nice person. No one deserves what you're doing to your wife. :/

Is there a bridge anywhere near you? If so, could you jump off it? Thanks.

Damn your wife's a doormat. I would never take back a jerk like you. You should be ashamed of yourself. It's almost as if your proud of what your doing. And you obviously have 0 respect for her or else you wouldn't betray her like that. And for 18 years! You are scum on top of scum.

You don't love your wife. Otherwise you wouldn't be cheating on her. If its not enough, tell her. Stop being so shallow. If shes doesn't want to give more, then don't throw a little hissy fit and go to another woman.

That's entirely TOO long of a time to be married to someone you clearly do NOT respect. Go fuck other people on your own time. Let her go so she can experience some happiness.

ever heard of karma? ....ever wonder why u feel sad or unfulfilled? enough said.

your wife took the vows "for better or worse" seriously...you took them as "for now and for more later" you are not a good person, but there's always ways to change. if you really don't want your wife, then spare her the heartache and embarassment

And seriously getting with fat women cause you will take anything... You have no self respect or respect for anyone. You are pathetic.

ok first of all u shouldnt do this to ur wife if u say u love her because if u actually did the u wouldnt do it and 2nd of all when u said u take advantage of "larger" women i loled

I hope she leaves you. I wish I had the guts to leave the guy I love who's cheated on me before. I feel like you are taking advantage of the fact that you know she won't leave. ... God, I hope she does. She deserves better.

OMFG STOP IT. you are an emotionaly detached person. your wife who you seem to love will not take you back < think of that next time it is offerd .

Your wife is an idiot! Why pity her? maybe at the start before she knew anything...sure. Seriously I am sick of women who stay with men that cheat. Ok so you are a nymphomaniac. Why not just have an open relationship? Or hello stop being such a prick and leave her to find someone that will 100% respect her. She is sooooo dumb though. And you are an asshole!

Just be as accepting when it happens to you.

I am a woman who had a problem with sex addiction in the past. I couldn't get enough and I needed sex from multiple partners all of the time. A couple years ago I fell in love and dedicated myself to one person. It took a lot of counseling and willpower not to cheat at first but I am able to say now that I'm perfectly fine with having one partner for the rest of my life (provided the sex continues to be satisfying.) I don't think you are really in love with your wife if you can't keep yourself from cheating. Either that or your sex life with her isn't satisfying. If you really love her but she isn't satisfying you, try talking to her about it. Maybe you need to have sex more, try different things, be more spontaneous, etc.) if she loves you I'm sure she would be willing to put in the extra effort to fulfill your needs. The bottom line is that I think you just aren't willing to try or you don't really love her. If you don't want to stop cheating, then I think you should grow a pair of balls and leave her. Maybe you want to be able to fuck other women but still have the stability and companionship that your wife can offer. Unfortunately, that isn't reality. Either way, you need to man up. Commit to your "true love" or let her go. She will respect your honestly and be better off in the end.

It is obvious you love your wife &amp; don't want to hurt her. Maybe you are a sex addict, cos even you love her you keep dipping your wick in the inkwell.

The rest of you somodites, stop throwing stones. How many of you threw rocks yet have played up on your partner or been abusive or hurt them in some way.

There but the grace of God go I! In 22yrs of marriage I never played up but hypocritical born again bible bashing self righteous Jezebel sure did. Ahhh fuck now I am throwing stones. Actually, thank you Jezebel for fucking around cos if you hadn't I would still be in a loveless marriage & never would have met my princess.

Jackass

Dude your a dick doin that to your wife.. She loves you.. keeps taking you back.. doesn't sound like you deserve it... (This is comin from a guy)

why dont you just say no every once in awhile and dont do it if its a fat bitch or co-worker (thats fucked) haha

hell no that woman should leav yo birch ass

I was a cheater and couldnt say no to men married or not. Now I find swinging helps my current relationship coz I get to screw around and be filled with cum while my man watches and we don't lie to each other. He loves it too as he gets his cock sucked by other women and fucks lots of pussy while I watch.

Wow, and your wife is still with you? You do have the choice to say NO! This sounds like it's all about you and having what you want.

See a councilor. You're obviously not fully satisfying your desires at home. And for god's sake you can control yourself, don't make excuses for yourself.

Careful that dinner your wife gives you may be laced with poison and the only reason why she takes you back. lol

But on the serious side, Sex addiction is a common problem, i would seek help and to be on the safe side, get tested.

Perhaps you two enjoy each other's company more than you do the actual commitment of love and marriage. I simply don't understand people who cheat, and I feel as if it so common that nobody thinks twice about it. Honestly, I have been asked by men for sex and to cheat on my then boyfriend. I have even been asked by a guy to leave my boyfriend and go out with him, and I've been asked by a women to have sex with her and her husband for her birthday. Each time I have been very appalled and infuriated as I think that is discusting and immoral behavior. I can't judge but I think it shows your true colors, and how much you really care about your wife.

I wish you well on your "endeavors" and hope you don't get another women pregnant or get an STD.

In many ways you are fortunate in being given the chance to cheat on your wife but it does seem to me to be hard on her. Women lose their attraction to men far more quickly than men lose their attraction to women and this means that women feel far more insecure and vulnerable in their marriage than men do.
Surveys have shown that the majority of men who have never cheated on their wives have not done so because of lack of opportunity rather than faithfulness. This being the case, I suppose you should not feel too badly about it but you may well reflect on the fact that your wife has given you two chances after separating so please try and consider her feelings before you cheat again.
I am certainly not judging you, I have no right to do so, but I am sure you are the sort of gentleman who would give consideration to your wife especially as you are so much in love. It must hurt her to know what you are doing, or have done and in consideration of her, perhaps you might like to avoid continuing your cheating.
Anyway, you are not alone in what you have done and it can be very hard indeed to resist the temptation. May I suggest that you take a long look at your life and future and plot the right course for yourself. It may be a choice between your wife or occasional affairs with married women with no hope for long term happiness.
You sound to me like a good guy and I am sure you will deal with this situation in the best way for you both.
Best wishes.