Are there any guys left who aren't aggressive when hidding on a girl?

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I realize a guy, who literally tried getting at me, and I don't last as long as a guy, who just flirted back anf forth with me, and I do. I remember back at my old job there were two attractive guys: with one, we would lowkey flirt as if we didn't want to admit to each other we were flirting cause we were interested in each other so we would like play it off. With the other guy, he literally just came up to me and tried to start to seduce me and I was like wth calm down despite that he was really cute. In the end, the first guy and I got into a fling. In general, I guess because it is more natural as we just flirt as opposed to saying our feelings directly. We express it not say it. So are there any guys who also prefer to just flirt without mentioning your feelings directly? I know it can be harder to let the other know how you're feeling but some actually like it, like me.

Im a guy and I also like just flirting, seeing where things go 23
Im a girl and I also like it when we flirt and see where leads to 14
Im a guy and I like hidding on better 7
Im a girl and I like getting hid on better 4
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  • Gena45
    12 years ago | pl

    I believe what you meant to say is "getting hit on", and "hitting on". Not hidding. Anyway, I prefer to let things flow. Guys who are too direct turn me off for some reason.

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  • GMAN
    12 years ago

    Im a terrible flirt. I usually just wait until I get lucky and some girl throws her self at me xD.

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  • mizeka
    12 years ago

    I hid my girls.

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  • mateo
    12 years ago

    im scared

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  • tentacleTherapist
    12 years ago

    I don't flirt? People think I am, but it's just being me. That can be insanely annoying.

    If a guy wants me, I wouldn't even notice the flirting.

    I like keeping things to the point, ''Do you like me, or not?'', but a challenge is SO much fun. What was the question again?

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    I'm a guy and I don't know any girls well enough to start a relationship. I'm bi and I've joke flirted with my male friend who is also bi (we're not attracted to eachother due to preferences in physical features) and that was fun. I think I'd much prefer to take it slowly and flirt first rather than being direct.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's sad, but guys who use the "hitting on" approach seem to be a lot more successful when it comes to the number of notches on the bed post.

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    • lisac1919
      12 years ago

      thats true, for slutty girls...and there are tonnes of those. but say you want to fuck a girl whos not a slut, youre going to have to try something else. personally i love playing the flirting game, it turns me on so much rather than just going right into it...then its too animalistic. i guess guys like that but not normal girls

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I use both methods. It all depends on the vibe i get from the girl/woman. Lolz

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I think getting hit on can be flattering, but when it comes to me being the one who's doing the hitting, I like to flirt with just the guy that I'm trying to pursue. I wouldn't just flirt with everyone or anyone. Sometimes it might seem like I'm flirting with other people but really Im not. And I hate being led on, so I would never purposely lead someone else on.

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  • Boredbastard
    12 years ago

    I.... all the girls i've liked have been friends of mine first..

    it makes it really difficult..
    and yeah, i have never had a girlfriend.

    but flirting doesn't ever lead to anything. ever.

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    • lisac1919
      12 years ago

      1) flirting doesnt mean being friends first
      2) being friends first can both make you feel more comofortable with eachother
      3) flirting definatly does lead to lots...trust me ;P

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