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I personally don't give a damn myself about the condition of my legs, but I'm more or less a bit self-concious when it comes down to what other people think. Would you go out with a girl with noticable[and permanent] scars on her legs, as well as knees?Not a huge deal, just curious.
Of course :-D Why not? Scars are just a story waiting to be told. And if you dating a guy who was insecure about your legs, then the son of a bitch isn't worth dating anyways :-) It should be about what's underneath a person, not what's on the outside :-)
Stuff like this doesn't bother me in the slightest. Everyone is a work in progress and we've all had things happen to us. I used to go out with a woman who had stretchmarks from her two pregnancies. She hated them but I always thought they were a very visible mark of her doing something wonderful (making new life). She had both her kids' names tattooed on her arm and I didn't see any difference between the stretchmarks and the tattoo (apart from that she had some choice over the tattoo).
Uhh.. I'm str8. Would I date a guy with scarred up limbs? I would have to really like him as a person. The ole "Elephant Man" question.. I once went on a blind date with this guy who had really horrible scarring on his back (and other areas of his body) due to a motorcycle accident. The wound never healed properly; he said that the doctors had to take skin from his thigh and other parts of his body to cover effected areas on his back. I won't lie. I was not attracted to this guy physically. Then, again, his personality was rather exploitative and he tried to play the pity card and get away with some shit to a rather large extent. So, to answer your question, in order for me to "date" a burn victim; walk down the avenue with me on his arm, he would have to have A LOT going for him besides his looks. But, I wouldn't say no just because he doesn't have a perfect or ordinary body.
If they were from an accident, probably doesn't matter. Unless they are like really bad. But if they were self inflicted, then it's an instant turn off because it shows that the person is pathetic.
When I was young I fell on a treadmill and it skinned off my knees and shins and now I'm left with scars. People never really comment on them, but when they do it's just them asking what happened. I don't think they judge on their appearance.
Sure, some guys will reject you because of your scars, but who cares? They're nothing but superficial assholes. We all have body parts that we dont find attractive, we have to live with it and focus on whats attractive. Noone's perfect.
Thank you everyone, for taking my question seriously ^.^ I suppose it was an innocent thing to ask, but depends more with the kind of guy you're with,huh?
Scars on the face, chest, stomach are okay, BUT I WONT STAND FOR SCARRED KNEES DAMN IT!!!
My ex had scars because she used to cut herself, it just made me wanna help her and care for her. If they're not self inflicted, well, it wouldn't be a turnoff but wouldn't be a turnon either, just like any part of your body that i wouldnt particularly love. You just dont have the plusvalue of having great looking legs, but im sure there are many other aspects of yourself that you could show off.
your wounds tell a story and stories can be interesting, if the storyteller is relaxed. which you sound so thats good:) btw have you tried silicone sheets i hear theri marvoluous
No. It would make you stand out in my mind in a good way; like your exotic and unique.
I have scars and marks on my legs and nobody has ever noticed until we were up close and personal like intimate. and i dont think it bothered any of them. i also have a huge scar on the small of my back with a rather interesting backstory...needless to say most people are more turned on than off by it...so i dont think just normal everyday scars are a turnoff
Depends on the scars. If it looks like they were from an accident or something, that might (and I mean might) be a turn-off. If they're obviously self-inflicted my interest would be piqued and it would be kind of a turn-on.