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do you think people are capable of being faithful, or can no one be truly trusted? I think most people would like to be faithful but can we honestly be trusted as a species, or would we all have our heads turned should the going get tough, or its offered "on a plate"?
| people can be faithful if they choose to be | 103 | |
| people arent made to be faithful | 27 | |
| sometimes people want to be faithful but cant manage it | 30 | |
| Other (Add a comment) | 7 |
I'm faithful to my husband, and he is faithful to me. if you truly love someone there is nothing that could make you cheat.
I think people CAN be faithful and trustworthy if they want to be. But I haven't met anyone who is....
I believe that humans can be faithful towards things that are important to them. If it's something that has no worth to them, they probably wouldn't care.
People can be faithful if they get what every human being needs. Attention and Sex. Cut someone off from either and they are bound to find it elsewhere.
Make either one boring as watching grass grow and they will likely find it elsewhere.
People generally look in their own kitchen for food before they decide to go out to eat. Reasons for finding what they need outside the home is...whats in the kitchen is the same ol boring thing, or there is nothing in the kitchen.
Trust noone.
Men are unfaithful cause their "hunter" instincts dominate them
Women are unfaithful cause they are whores!(Actually its their instincts too, they want the best male they can find to mate with to produce better children)
Both men and women can choose to be faithful, but rarely they do.
im a 22 year old dude and ive never cheated. ive been given the opportunity to have a 3some and still passed on it despite how bad i wanted to(i mean she was on top of me, friend next to me getting undressed). ive been cheated on before and know the heartache you truly feel when you have been betrayed by the 1 person you trusted most. it affected me so bad that i diddnt have a relationship for almost 2 years. i would jus have 1 night stands at parties, maybe goin on 2 dates, waiting to find a girl i could trust. soon realizing u cant trust a bitch that jus gave it up without even knowin who u are. ive been in a committed relationship now for over a year and the opportunity to cheat has come up more than a few times. when that situation comes up, i pull out my cell phone and call my girl and jus talk to her until the other girl gets the point.. it may not be easy, ive even been called gay because of it, but if u truly love the person ure with, u won't cheat. if u KNOW that u would if the chance is given, jus leave the girl ure with, save her the pain and go bone some random chick at a bar or party. nuff said
i only know one person that i really trust, but im kind of paranoid. for normal purposes most people are trustworthy, you just never really know who the untrustworthy ones are.
The only reason that people buy the faith thing is beacuse they are afriad that if they dont and a god is real he/she will crush them like a bug
people are faithful in most ways and at heart.... people just arent made to be faithful in sex, most every one of my friends and myself included would cheet on our bf's if given the chance at a celeb or an older powerful type guy... it would just be for sex and fantacy and we would still love and go back to our bf's but sex is very hard to resist in the moment.
Here is a quote I remember from a picture of Dorian Gray and thought it befitting.
"Why, even love it is surely a question of physiology. It has nothing to do with our own will. Young men want to be faithful and are not; and old men want to be faithless and cannot: that is all one can say"
Peace out
People can be faithful, if the subject doesn't go against to what they believe. Exemple: I'm not faithful, because I always analising people, and if I find a better person, I will go for her. I refuse to look to just one person.
But I don't go to another person just for sex or something. I get tired of people quite easly, and I search for people who don't anoy me. (Maybe people more similiar to me.)
But there are other people who like the idea of looking to just one person.
I hate to say it, but very few people are actually faithful through out their whole lives. If they're not doing it, they're bemoaning that fact in their heads, and that to me, is an equal lack of faith.