Are my girl's thoughts normal

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I have a dream of someday owning my own bar, not like a night club but more like a nice bar and grill where, people get together after work to have a mixed drink or a beer with their dinner.

I can not express in word's just how opposed to this idea my girlfriend is. She has this fierce hatred of bars, because she sees them as places where women get drugged and rapped, I don't know why she has these views especially considering that, I know for a fact she has never been in a bar in her life.

As unusual as her view on that is, it's what she later told me that confused the hell out of me.
She said that she would be ok with me opening a bar but only if it was a gay bar. When I asked her why she'd be ok with that her response was;
''Gay people are usually much nicer, and are generally more trustworthy.''

Now admittedly I don't know any gay men and few lesbian and bi women, but to my knowledge people are people no mater what they like to fuck, and you'll find about the same percentage of good and bad in most any group.

Is her reasoning normal?

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Your girlfriend has limited life experiences and seems swept up in some sort of twisted, pseudo-liberal narrative. Probably a red flag as far as your relationship goes.

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  • dytrog
    7 years ago

    Maybe she had something bad happen to her at a bar.
    A drugged gang bang maybe?

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago

    She sucks. Get a new girlfriend.

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  • Abercrombie
    7 years ago

    9 out of 10 restaurants fail in the first year!
    However, a nice bar & grill, smoke free, no dopers,
    no human trash, nice clad people and reasonable prices could -in my opinion as customer- can make a go!
    Don't let trash into the door. No colourd B-day parties, no families with -possible- crying children, ....

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Your girlfriend is just ignorant and controlling. End the relationship and open your Bar & Grill.

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  • registered
    7 years ago

    Does she hate everything that begins with a B? (bars, bees, etc.)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Bars, bees, booze, pot, cigarettes, massage school, islands, peninsulas, boats, plains, mexico, any state touching mexico, subways, driving, politics, history, any remotely sexual talk, and trains.

      She really really, freaking hates trains.

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      • ʇɐq_ɐ_ɯı_ןoן
        7 years ago

        ʎqɹɐǝu looɥɔs ǝƃɐssɐɯ ɐ ɯoɹɟ sǝǝq ƃuıʞoɯs ʇod ǝɹnl oʇ suǝddɐɥ ʇɐɥʇ ǝzooq ɥʇıʍ pǝllıɟ ɹɐq ɐ uı ɹǝʌo dǝǝls oʇ ǝʌɐɥ ʎǝɥʇ 'ɹǝpɹɐoq ǝɥʇ ƃuıssoɹɔ ǝɹoɟǝq 'uǝɥʇ ˙ǝɔɐld sǝʞɐʇ ʞlɐʇ lɐnxǝs ɟo sʇol ǝɹǝɥʍ sʎɐʍqns uo puɐlsı ɹǝɥ ɯoɹɟ ǝldoǝd ǝɥʇ ʇnd ʎǝɥʇ os ˙puıʞ ɹǝɥ sǝʇɐɥ ʎllɐıɔǝdsǝ oɔıxǝɯ ˙oɔıxǝɯ puɐ ɐsn ǝɥʇ ɥʇıʍ dɐɹɔ lɐɔıʇılod ɟo ʎɹoʇsıɥ ɐ sɐɥ puɐlsı ɹǝɥ ˙(ʇsɹıɟ oɔıxǝɯ uı ƃuıʞɔop ʎlǝʇɐunʇɹoɟun ؛ɐsn ǝɥʇ oʇ ʇǝƃ oʇ poɥʇǝɯ uoıʇɐʇɹodsuɐɹʇ ʎluo ǝɥʇ) sʇɐoq ʎq pǝpunoɹɹns puɐlsı uɐ ɟo ɐlnsuıuǝd ǝɥʇ uo pǝʌıl puǝıɹɟlɹıƃ ɹnoʎ

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        So why are you with this weird disturbed person? Or are you her therapist?

        Go for your dream: even if you don't get it or it doesn't turn out well you won't die wishing you'd at least tried.

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  • Misterman
    7 years ago

    Have you ever considered finding a life partner who has an intellectual level of a female older than a 12 year old? Why do you blame her? She is who she is. There are other women in this world you know. Consider the importance of the goals you have set for yourself. Do you really think those goals will be reached by sticking with a woman whoose only worry is having enough white chalk to draw her hop scotch grid? So why are you still with her my young friend? Dude, welcome to adulthood. I can tell you that life can be so much easier when a man has a good women by his side. Why? BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING TO NEED HER. Enough with the puppy love Dude. Life is about to get as serious as a heart attack.

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  • AdmiralAwesome
    7 years ago

    I actually knew a couple in the exact same situation and it ended in their divorce. Just explain to her that bars are not as dangerous as she thinks, maybe even tell her that you'll take extra precautions whether you actually take them or not

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