Are my fantasies really weird?

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A lot of the time when I'm attracted to someone, I fantasize about dying in their arms, being executed in their place, or being killed by them in some way as an act of mercy. I'm not suicidal in the least and would really prefer to live and enjoy my other more mainstream fantasies with them, but it rarely happens that I don't at least once or twice find myself daydreaming my more morbid scenarios. I don't know why I do that, if I should be concerned, or if anyone else has ever found themselves thinking such things . . .

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Based on 89 votes (42 yes)
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  • annada
    14 years ago

    This is your will to be adored and loved unconditionaly, you probably have a need to be the center of attention which is really normal.

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    • PoisonFlowers
      14 years ago

      It's probably something to do with that.
      I think about things like this too.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    It sounds like you crave affection as well as loyalty in relationships.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Sounds very dramatic and "true-love"-ish... I likes :D

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  • Maki_P
    13 years ago

    ehmmmmmm......
    Ok that's kind of weird. But you don't control how you feel. And dying in a love one's arms is Kind of Romantic.

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  • dollcandy
    14 years ago

    Your just romantic! You should write them down like short stories and make a million...hey it's happened before! I used to fantasize the exact same things (dying for him basically) It means you have a lot of love in you chica.

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  • wallydarn
    14 years ago

    Maybe you need a doctor. :/

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  • AvengedAnger
    14 years ago

    I dont think its weird. I've had these fantasies multiple times. I think its because you and I and others have trouble showing our true feelings for this person. You fantasize about showing them your true feelings in the most beutiful way... Self Sacrifice.

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  • PureKorean
    14 years ago

    Well tbh i think....that dying in there arms, yes this would be perfectly normal and being killed by them in an act of mercy is perfectly fine too i guess...but idk what u mean by being executed in their place or soemthing :O

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  • mariemarie1
    14 years ago

    I've never thought of anything like that, but I don't think it's weird. Seems normal enough to me.

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    • rita_skeeter
      14 years ago

      yes, yes i have.

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