Are men in the usa becoming softer and more femminine

Yeah, but that's not a bad thing. It's better than acting masculine but feeling like shit about yourself. Who cares if they are anyway?

On the contrary, women just don't have to pretend to be pussies to tickle male ego anymore.

The gap is closing, but since it's women who're finally allowed to act normal, the men seem stranger.

So what if they are? There isn't anything inherently wrong with that.

I think Paula Cole said it best

Masculinity is often labeled "toxic". Women do really desire masculine men, despite what the movies and tv shows say. You can't undo biology.

My wife will dress me up as her girlfriend. I don't feel less of a many. She also pegs me. I don't feel less of a man. It's how you feel.

I think men are becoming afraid to speak their mind and display classically "masculine" qualities due to the extreme end of feminism having such a disproportionately large voice in mainstream media.

I don't necessarily think that makes them soft though. Just... Downtrodden? Stifled? Someone throw me a thesaurus lol

Wimps. All of them!

Yes men are. I don’t know what the hell this tight wearing shit is and wearing clothing that belongs to females is about but it needs to stop. All these young kids and grown men walking around looking like assholes!

Soft is not even the word to describe it. To me it seems men are acting more and more like women. While women and becoming more aggressive than men.

I do agree! I’ve been watching a lot of 40’s, 50’s, 60’s TV. Those babes are Hottt! And the men are to be admired!

Kinda yeah, ironically it’s “MRAs” and the like that are basically trying to convince everyone that men are now victims (of “feminism”) and need protected against women due to being socially weaker, thus taking their place as “second class citizens”

Political correctness is like erectile dysfunction.

Yeah they are manginas.

Yes, and women are becoming more like men. I miss those sirens from the 1950s and 60s who could turn a man on just by walking by. Sexy walk and sexy talk, mini skirts, and tight ass jeans, halter tops, bikinis and red lipstick. Where are those women at? Lost in time? What I see around my area now are women with weight issues and bland hair styles. Also one other thing while I'm here, why are so many women dying their hair blond? Everywhere I go all I see are blond haired women with brown or black eyebrows and dark roots. We men love all colors of women's hair, not just blond! It's all a plot to destroy the human race, and I'm not kidding. Why else would they (mainly the media) be pushing gay and lesbian down our throats?

Undoubtedly. We live in a time of unprecedented effeminacy and degeneracy. The one good things is that if we are invaded then at least the men are weak enough to be kept alive as sex slaves too.

Men are becoming more feminine or are both sexes feeling more free to be who they want to be instead of following rigid gender roles? If a man wants to be masculine and a female wants to be feminine, that's cool. But some males and females don't feel they need to abide by those standards and want to be who they want to be. So what if a guy wants to wear certain clothes not traditionally seen as masculine or a woman wants to participate in activities that are deemed masculine? Is society going to crumble?

Also, If you want to do all that cringy "gentlemen" shit where you run around the side of your car to open a door for a woman or pull out her chair at dinner, knock yourself out. I just don't feel that I'm less of a man for not wanting to do any of that. I'd rather date the girl that gives me the weird look for trying to do that than some fucking princess who expects that of me.

For some reason, people really seem to be afraid of this. A man in heels or a dress? What's wrong with it? He's likes it, he's comfortable and not hurting anyone. There's nothing wrong with it.

Yes they do. As a result, the whole world will suffer.

So going into a convience store today I am walking in front of a very attractive woman, I hold the door open for her. Not even a thank you to be polite. She did not even acknowledge I was breathing the same damn air as her, we all knew her oxygen was more important than anyone else's. At least say thank you damn it. I would have held the door for a less attractive grandma or any other female so please dont think it's because your pretty. Just say thank you, like we all were taught to do as kids.