Are his intentions genuine?

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I've met this guy, we have been talking for 2 weeks and have met up once. Right off the bat not only did we find ourselves with so much in common but figured out we were both looking for relationships. Now, I'm well aware that two weeks isn't enough to decide if you'd like to pressure a relationship with someone, nor is one single date but I asked anyway so I wouldn't let my feelings get involved so deeply, because I was, starting to develop feelings for him. His response to my question was "I don't know yet, but I think we should start off as friends and we can have fun" I'm not sure if he being genuine or not, he seemed genuine from the start but this has me a bit weary. On our date, we didn't have sex but we did explore each other's bodies so I'm not particularly sure if that's the kind of fun he's referring to. My main questions are, is this normal behavior? Are his intentions genuine or am I just wasting my time?

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Well it sounds like he admitted he liked you as a friend and thinks it's fun exploring your body. I think at this point that's all you can assume.

    It's a good thing he answered honestly and didn't pretend to be in love with you.

    What you need to decide is what your boundaries are and how far you want to go without a commitment.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    I don't think normal people really have "intentions" after 2 weeks. If they do thats abnormal. The only intention anyone should have at that point is getting to know each other.

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    If nothing else sticks in your mind, remember this. Most guys will tell you what you want to hear just for the chance to get in your panties. Let him talk about things he wants or would like at some point. I bet a lot of your same things you liked, you mentioned them and then he agreed with you. Try and trip him up in conversation, just to at least find out if he's being honest with you. Or check out his social media stuff. Don't be another young pregnant teen that the guy runs off because "his friends told him you were seeing other guys". Watch Jerry Springer, Steve Wilkos, or Maury. Maybe 80% of guys will bail on a girl when she gets pregnant. Well I just realized you didn't mention ages. I must have thought of another post I read. But really I think at least 75% of guys on a first date, if you could open their mind up and read it, it will have SEX written all in there. Listen to your female intuition.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    can't say cause i usually screw on the first hook up, and when i didnt it ended pretty bad. So i figure sex is a human activity like getting enough water.

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