Are all cheaters bad people? should you associate with them?
I have a new friend that has admitted to cheating, and I'm not sure if I should be around them anymore. I don't want to judge people, but it doesn't seem right to be around someone that could betray you at any moment and you wouldn't even know it.
From what people have told me, when someone cheats they don't love their partner anymore and don't care about their feelings (some say they haven't cared even before cheating). That being the case, no one should ever get back together with the person that cheated on them.
What is to stop them from cheating on their next partner? Nothing. If they've done it before they could easily do it again, so why should anyone give a cheater a chance? A lot of them lie (that's how they get away with it) and leave their partner suffering, but that doesn't matter to them.
Why would ANYONE want to associate with someone like that, for the matter? What would stop them from betraying the trust of their family and friends? If they can show no concern for their partner, the person closest to them, they could do it to anyone.
It seems to me like cheating would make you one of the most reprehensible people out there, especially seeing how it has affected a lot of people online. In the forums I go to these people are permanently ruined because of this, and the few that recover are too hesitant to start a relationship again.
I'm not planning to get into a relationship with this person, but I don't think even a friendship would work if the stuff I said above were true.
I need advice.