Anything about my behavior a bit "off"?

I go to a big school with 3 stories and 2 elevators. About 95% of the students who attend there I dislike. I don't know any of them personally but the way they dress makes them come off mean and I don't really see the point of friend making. Plus, theyre loud. I mean, I don't really feel like I need a friend unless it is needed. I have 2 friends since I don't go out my way trying to chat. I feel very disconnected to everyone. Im not a fan of smiling and much focus myself to at least make a half smile. I ignore people I used to be friendly with. I don't know why. I been in school for 6 months and seen the same people per class and have no desire to know them at all. I want friends for birthday parties but other than that I fine being by myself. Im kind of "asocial" you could say.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I'm sorry but, how does someone dress mean? You really can't judge a cover by how someone dresses. I don't blame you for wanting to avoid loud people. At least you have some friends. Since you don't like the majority of people here, try looking outside of school when it comes to making other friends.

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    • Watashi

      Oh, you do not know my school.

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    • mystery7

      'how does someone dress mean?'

      Maybe one of those evil looking skull t shirts ? Some of them look kind of mean n scary!

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Yeah, it's normal. A lot of people are like you but you will never know because they have no interest in making friends with you either XD

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    • Watashi

      Thats true, lol.

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    • Koda

      I'm sure there's an online community for them...

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  • Koda

    I'm sorry, but people who say they don't need friends have never had any good ones. True, there are a lot of scumbags out there, but when you find someone you click with, your life becomes way more fun and way more exciting. Not only do you have someone else to share thoughts with, but you have a peer to share new experiences with. You'll never laugh more or feel as good as you will hanging out with a good friend. Friends make you feel like you're really living and that you really matter and that you're not just merely existing. Everybody, including anti-social and introverted people, need some social interaction in order not to go insane or become depressed. Who you need to find is someone who understands that you need to spend a lot of time alone and not take it personally. Even if you had someone to hang out with once every two weeks, that'd enrich your life SO much.

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    • Watashi

      No need to feel sorry and, thanks for your advice. Anti social is parts of a disorder. Just had to correct that. Uh, friends isnt really on most wanted lists. I haven't gone insane.

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  • chained_rage

    Which three stories does your school have?

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    • Watashi

      Oh, sorry. I meant floors.

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    • umph

      First, Third an Ninth.

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  • theseeker

    I was like that in high school, but looking back I was probably like that in part because I had very little self-worth, or this screwed up misconception that I wasn't worth it. I hated being around people, and wasn't into conversing with others, therefore isolated myself from everyone else. I mostly blew off people that tried to converse with me.

    After high school, I started to realize there was something very wrong with that outlook, and my overall sense of direction. Life is best when you're experiencing things and it's more enjoyable to experience things with others.

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    • Watashi

      Thank you for your advice and insight.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Sounds like a cop out to me. Just like those who are saving themselves for marriage, because they can't get laid, you don't want friends because you don't have any.
    All in all, both are incredibly immature attitudes of failure, rather than the more mature one of overcoming the problem.
    And, it seems to be very normal. I shudder to think what the world will be like when this generation is in charge. The ones raised with the "everybody is a winner" mentality aren't doing very well in the real world right now, perhaps y'all could take a lesson from them?

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    • Watashi

      Not everyone is a virgin because they can't get laid, lol. They're others reasons for not having sex. Everyone experiences failure and can be immature too. I dont have that mentality where do the heck did that come from? Lol. Lesson for what?

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    • Koda

      I think it's kind of a cop out too, but admit it, anybody can get laid. Anybody. You can't say you don't know any creepers who are anything but forever alone. Most virgins, who aren't asexual or scared, are just unwilling to admit they're trying to seduce people WAY out of their league. Some people have standards so high they'd rather wait for someone hot to give them pity sex than take what's being served. My extremely unattractive friend got laid WAY before I did because he would literally do ANYONE. Yeah, even the girl known to have a bushful of crabs.

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      • thegypsysailor

        Anybody can make friends, too.
        It took me many years to understand that it was more fun to be with someone who liked me, rather than sitting at the bar alone feeling sorry for myself, because I couldn't be with the one I wanted to be with.
        Steven Stills said it bestest; "Love the one you're with".

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        • Koda

          Sometimes all it takes is a little separation to make you realize how much you really love someone.

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