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You fantasize about friends or acquaintances? I know fantasizing in general is normal, but I sometimes feel disgusted with myself when I imagine someone I know in real life. Even if it gets the job done right!
I feel weird about it, but do it occasionally. Never actually felt guilty, though.
I sometimes fantasize about some colleagues. Once, at work, I was a bit bored and went to the toilet to whack one off thinking about the colleague that sits right next to me (I've only ever masturbated at work twice).
I fantasize about almost every woman I know that I find attractive.
I don't feel guilty at all.
Honestly I use to set up rules for myself when it came to masturbating and one of them was about this exact thing. I did feel very guilty at first, but it goes away the more you keep doing it.
Feel no guilt in the fantasy. Now, be careful who the fantasy becomes reality with. Keep in mind relations, don't damage any, and certainly not those of your friends, relatives, loved ones. And, keep in mind, until you are with a person for a long time, day in and day out, you REALLY don't know what they are like, so, could be a LOT worse than what you expected.
No,i do not feel guilty. if they arouse me, it is not all my fault. To feel "disgusted with yourself" for normal hormonal reactions is not healthy - go with it and feel no shame! I fantasise about acquaintences regularly! You are normal!
You shouldnt feel gilty about it, its just a thought...the only way you should feel guilty is if they are under the age 16
I used to fantasise about a gay friend of mine. It happened so long ago that I can't recall if I ever felt the throws of guilt.
I only feel disgusted if it was someone I was emotionally involved with at some point and it ended up not working out. This is because it feels like I haven't properly moved on and to rely on something that failed just to get off doesn't feel very good. If there wasn't a history like that then I go full speed ahead, sometimes friends are pretty attractive.