Anybody here gone out with bf or gf and attracted to any other person?
If so please tell me how did you exposed your feeling to them?
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charli.m
Personally, I don't believe being attracted to someone else while in relationship is a bad thing - I think it's entirely normal. As for whether to tell your partner...it really depends. I like the idea of being so comfortable with someone that you could discuss that without anyone feeling threatened or unattractive, but the relationships I've been in, they definitely weren't that kinda guy.
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[Old Memory]
I agree with you. I've actually discussed attraction to other people with my ex. For example we were at a restaurant and our waitress was really cute. We would joke around and he'd say something like, "I'd do her she's a cutie" to which I would reply, "Me too."
At the same restaurant there was a waiter named Sean who his mother was flirting with when we all went out to dinner one day and he always use to bring him up when we went there.
He's even told me a conversation he had with one of his coworkers about another cute girl coworker. It's totally harmless and we both knew what was too far and if either was uncomfortable with something we'd let each other know.
For example we use to work at the same company and there was a new (guy) employee who got hired during the summer. He had a crush on me but also playfully flirted with everyone at work, it was his personality. My ex wasn't comfortable with it and he told me and wanted me to clarify that point to the guy so he'd stop flirting (he didn't mind me talking to him, just him flirting with me) so that's what I did.
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Joebo
I going out with a girl and while I'm with her another girl is always near she is fit as and I just forget about her and think about the girl you are going out with
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quentari
I think it would depend on your attraction, are you attracted like you want to cheat on your partner? or are you attracted like "dayum that guy's hot!"
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scottish_quine
Everyone has their own opinion on this - and probably every single question on IIN - but I am going through this at the moment. I love my boyfriend dearly but I am attracted to another guy, I speak to him sometimes, just normal chit chat, nothing dirty or crude. I personally won't be taking it any further but as I said before, everyone is different.
Don't think that having feelings for someone else isn't normal. It perfectly is. xx
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kinklu
A perfect world for me would be one in which I get to fuck every healthy woman in the world between the ages of 18 and 50. It's the one unique process that we men want to do, and, in fact, have to do according to the theory of evolution. Women aren't far behind, but they are more sensible about it since they can get pregnant and have to raise a baby before they are ready.
How often I've been in a social situation where a sexy, pretty woman appears to be attracted to me as I am to her, and upon returning home to my wife, looking at her and thinking to myself, "What was I thinking? I have the best in the world right here at home and because I'm with her constantly I fail to realize that she's more beautiful in all ways than any other women including some really great looking women who, as you would soon discover, weren't as perfect as they look.
IT IS NORMAL. Observe the rules of society long enough to get away. You'll get over it. If not, honesty is the best policy. But, if you decide to make the leap, be careful that you're thinking with the correct head!
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KeddersPrincess
Considering that my sinister celebrity crush will not leave the back of my head, it seems that, even if I did have a boyfriend, I will still be very much attracted to someone else. (If that counts)
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