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im starting to lose interest in my girlfriend of 5 months. there's just no more excitement in the relationship and I've decided , after about a week of thinking about it and being unable to sleep, that I'm going to breakup with her. I'm planning to do it tommorow and will most likely call her (she lives far away). I don't want to hurt her but I want to just cut things off.
Be honest, tell her exactly how you feel.
Better a harsh truth than a comfortable lie.
Be firm, but understanding.
I've been dumped many times.
Never underestimate the truth in the phrase "it's just not right"
Just tell her the truth that you find you're not clicking with her anymore and you want to break it off. It'll be tough but there is really no other way to do it.
Some people say they want to have a break "for a while" or you want to "start seeing other people" which some people say is letting them down easy but it does the opposite.
Well there must be at least 50 ways to leave your lover. You know what...that would make a great song.
There's no way you can do this that won't hurt her, assuming she still wants to be with you: all you can do is be as gentle as you can and focus on the fact that your feelings have changed and not what's wrong with her.