Anxiety attacks due to boyfriend's obsession with gay porn

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Since July, I discovered that my BF watches gay, bi, tranny porn...it really freaks me out. I am obsessed with checking his web history every so often and I have tried to breach the subject...not very well. He says he watches men and women having sex...but, I find more men/men and he is obsessed with anal sex...which I am just not into. I am freaked out, we are so in love and I know he doesn't go fuck around or anything, but I just don't understand the obsession of watching that shit if you are supposed to be straight. If he just is curious and it gets him off, I still don't get it and it makes me fucking ill...but, I love him too much to be overly concerned about our life together. I do know, however, that it needs to come out and be talked about at some point or I am going to become a Xanax junkie.......Is this normal? opinions????

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  • petawawacouple69
    12 years ago

    I'm the same as your boyfriend, my girlfriend knows everything and she's fine with it, I'm totally straight but the Internet makes us look at weird things. Think of it as a drug for him, at first he watches straight porn. That's like smoking pot. But after a while he can't get his high from straight porn anymore and needs to watch more dirty stuff and it finally becomes a problem. A lot of guys are into what your boyfriend is into, they are just scared to admit it. I guarantee after he cums he feels totally ashamed but normal again at the same time. You judging him is not normal, he has a bigger sex drive then you. I'm guessing your like 16 or 17, and without crazy fantasies, give it a few years and you'll grow into some weird fantasies too, I'm sure you wouldn't want people thinking you were a freak. He's normal, trust me, every guy in the world is curious about what your bf is watching. Be happy you have a bf that could bring some new sexual adventures into the bed room, one day ordinary sex will suck. That's when you'll wish you had a bf to talk about dirty fantasies together.

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  • korn3654
    13 years ago

    He's a fag.

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  • Idiosyncratic
    12 years ago

    He's probably bi. I wouldn't sweat over the anal porn if I were you, it'll get you nowhere.

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  • lvcumluver
    13 years ago

    I love that stuff too he is bi or gay he just know how to tell you
    i'm sure, it could be fun for you though, have fun with it!

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    if all u find is gay porn and no heyetosexual then that would be suspect as a cliset homosexual, in my opinion. thete have been cases of gay men getting married and having kids even and never coming out of the closet.

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  • mightcrawler
    13 years ago

    Sexuality has many forms BUT if it is afecting a second party, in this case you than you should definately leave him. You will only get sicker if you dont!!!!!!
    Trust me, i've been there.. And even though my relationship is over since two years ago the anxiety atacs are still not completely gonne!! Be careful and take care of yourself and your sanity.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    the whole thing stinks but what can you do? itll be ok, dont stress

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