Annoying friend

Ok so me and my best friend met about 2 years ago and she used to think I was weird and she didn't really want to hang out with me, but after a wile she was clinging to me and she would invite me over all the time and start bragging about people she thinks are her friends when she never hangs out with them... This made me annoyed like for example I was making this graph about who were my closest friends and she was 2nd on it cause I have another best friend too that I've known since I was really tiny but anywaise she got jelous cause I had like 20 friends on the list and she would make her own list after me that had half the people on my list in hers, and she didn't hang out with any of them, and than we started to get into arguments that she alwys started and I would be the one to apologize and now she is clinging to me and blames me for stupid things I never say or do and I'm starting to hate my best friend, I really wanna be friends with her but I can't it's like she is my worst enemy but yet she still likes me and I'm just starting to hate my best friend and I started to get this feeling of hatred everytime I see her and the other day on instagram I asked her if she has more than one account and she went crazy and was like why?? and it's funny cause I know that she does and I can tell she try's to make me jealous, because I have more stuff than her like the iPhone but yet she try's to make me jealous because she is jelous of me even my mom and half my other friends said that she was jelous like she would say to me I'm moving to California even tho her parents told my mom it wasnt true and I need help to know if it's normal to hate my bestfriend after all that and she has done worse but I don't want to say what else so please tell me if its normal and what I can do to try to fix it thanks