Animalistic affair with taiwanese hooker- destroy my family?

I am an English businessman, and as part of my occupation, I travel often.
I have a wife of 12 years and 3 children who are 11, 9 and 6.
I recently visited Taiwan and had a 2 month long sexual relationship with a young prostitute. I have always had an Asian fetish, and have an extremely high libido.
I can't commit, I don't and have never wanted a family, (despite caring for my kids) and my wife has grown boring and unattractive to me. I have been told I am exceptionally attractive and could easily get a lot of other women. This idea appeals to me greatly.
Shall I end my marriage to pursue a more intense sex life?
Should I support my wife and kids, and continue following my promiscuous ways?
Is my detachment from my family and drive for pleasure in any way normal?

Leave wife and kids- selfish but happy 18
Stay with wife and kids- honourable but unhappy 23
Keep both up- deceitful but satisfied 11
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  • jenniferhotpants

    Richard.
    You may have kept up an affair with some stupid slut 'Suki' over in Taiwan, but you evidently are not wise enough to LOG OUT OF YOUR PHONE PROPERLY.
    I'm glad you didn't sign out, because let us be honest, this relationship has been getting out of hand and I am glad YOU have given me a reason to divorce you.
    I would never normally get involved in a ridiculous internet post, I am proud and this is a low moment. But I hope that you will read this, when you eventually manage to log on. Let me just inform everyone who has told you how much of a psychopathic, selfish, heartless fucking bastard you are, what has happened. You, Richard, have been kicked out. I have your phone, and I am just contacting all the women you have been talking to, to let them know what a scum bag you are. The kids, Michael, Linda and Ed are with my mother, so good timing. I have no more tears to cry for you, and to be honest, I am glad that you have lost EVERYTHING. You deserve nothing for your lack of morality and I despise you. I'm sure I can get my lawyers to make a strong case in court to ensure you don't try for custody of the children you said you 'never wanted'.
    As for the petty insults, well, I may be 'boring' and unattractive to you, but I know that this is not true. You are merely trying to justify your disgusting actions.
    See you in court.
    Your soon to be 'ex wife',
    Jennifer.

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    • Oh my. If this is legit, go you Jennifer!! I send my good wishes your way. Take care :)

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      • lolol555

        Normally I wouldn't believe but, weird, it actually seems pretty real!
        Haha. Wow. Probably one of the best IIN moments in awhile.

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      • CozmoWank

        What Anthian said. Best wishes to Jennifer & the kids!

        Richard is going to have a hard time finding any kind of sympathy from anyone.

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      • thegypsysailor

        Unfortunately, this Jennifer is an American, as they don't call them lawyers in the Uk. Buy it was fun for a moment.

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        • jenniferhotpants

          I can confirm that I am indeed English. From Stourbridge. Alas, despite my A level in English language and literature, my terminology isn't 'english' enough for you.

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          • thegypsysailor

            sorry

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        • SophisticatedPsyche

          It is true that people in the UK say lawyer or solicitor. So you don't really have a point there. I'm from Newcastle and I say lawyer

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          • thegypsysailor

            OK, OK.
            SORRY

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        • benthewizard

          Looks like you should stop tying to be so clever, as clearly this Jennifer isn't here to be messed with. By the way, if you're going to start correcting peoples terminology, proof read your own comments first, genius.

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    • RoseIsabella

      My heart goes out to you and I wish you all the best! God bless you, Jennifer!

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    • JaxX

      That shit really just happened. Someone screen shot. Ps: good for you jen. Guess the choice was made for him.

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      • benthewizard

        Omg yes someone should put this on facebook

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    • Crusades

      Troll of the year.

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    • Shackleford96

      Wow at you jennifer! That was a sleezeball thing for your husband to do, but you replied in a dignified and respectable manner. I admire that. Kudos to you.

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    • JohnTrollinski

      Piss off Jennifer you frigid old bat.

      Leave the poor bloke alone. It's not his fault you can't satisfy him

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  • Wife of twelve years?? And you want to drop her like a hot cake? You, sir, (oops, you are not worthy of sir. You are a pathetic man who hasn't outgrown puberty yet) are not worthy of your wife.

    If you never wanted to get married, then why do it? People like you piss me off. Do your wife a favor and take your dishonorable, sleazy, cheating ass out the door. You are so selfish. I hope not all businessmen are immature, deceitful little pricks like you. Way to represent!

    I am being an asshole, and I do not care! You have struck a cord within me and out flows my anger.

    To get back on point...Follow this advice.
    1. End your marriage
    2. Buy a gigantic dildo
    3. Go fuck yourself

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  • thegypsysailor

    What are you, about 17 years old? No adult could possibly be asking these questions, and be expecting any helpful advice or sympathy.
    Would you honestly destroy the lives of your children and wife, without the tiniest bit of remorse, just to get some strange? You've made your bed (having a family), now man up and do the right thing by them. Your sexual happiness should be very low on your list of priorities, at this point.

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  • CozmoWank

    Is this a real post?

    If you can't commit & never wanted a family, why the hell did you get married & have a family? I hope you haven't brought home some disease from youR Taiwanese hooker!

    What an asshole!

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    • SHAKEStheClown

      *imagines dirty, bruised thighs opening unto a fleshy cesspit of disease and fleas*

      I think I'm going to hurl!

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      • CozmoWank

        Lol.

        I can also imagine scabs and flies.
        I wonder if it was a Taiwanese LadyBoy?...not that there's anything wrong with that.

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        • SHAKEStheClown

          I wonder if OP would have been a top or a bottom and did they eat dog meat together after their diseased lovin?

          *imagines the foul aroma wafting through the balmy air*

          I think I just threw up a little in my mouth.

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        • RoseIsabella

          It may very well have been a she-male. I bet OP's teeth are crooked and as yellow his dirty whore's piss.
          ;-)

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  • dom180

    There's nothing wrong with leaving a relationship you are not happy with, whatever the reason. You've never got any moral responsibility to stay in a relationship. However, I do think you have a moral responsibility to be a father to your children if they want you.

    Having a high libido and being tempted by a personal kink is a pathetic excuse for cheating, and the only wholly immoral option is continuing to lie to your family. Sadly, I've got a feeling that is exactly what you'll do because you won't be grown up enough to tell your wife and kids they're not good enough for you :/

    You've got at the moment what a lot of people would want, a good family. Is that something you're willing to throw away forever on a whim? How long have you felt this way? How do you know your feelings won't change again and you'll miss your wife and kids? This sounds like a mid-life crisis sort of thing, wanting to feel young and cool and free of responsibility again. The world doesn't work like that, and you have responsibility now whether you want it or not.

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  • Energy

    Leave because she deserves way better. And so do the kids. So please do them a huge favor and leave.

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  • ThisIsImpossible

    Haha, fuck you and the horse you rode in on. Selfish enough to bring kids in this world without their consent and then dump them. Fuuuuuck you.

    Anyway. You should tell your wife that you need an open relationship, if it wont work, get out of the relationship. Otherwise youll be making your entire family miserable eventually. Not that you really give two shits right? If you had any sense of self respect you wouldve ended it a long time ago.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Whoa. You're a dick, richard.

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  • SHAKEStheClown

    Animalistic, huh? So what did this stupid bitch do; get on all fours, bark like a dog and eat her own feces?

    I hope you've had your shots, you dirty, old bugger!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Well, the first thing you need to do is get tested for sexually transmitted diseases. The reproductive organs of a Taiwanese prostitute are probably very much like Grand Central Station if you get my drift. Stop bragging about yourself and trying to rationalize your bad behavior with all this talk of an asian fetish or a high libido. Start going to Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings. Also It would greatly benefit your marriage to start attending couples therapy with your wife. Do not get in any rush to confess your infidelities to your wife and do not try play the victim. If you find your wife to be boring an unattractive remember that life is a two way street and you're in no position to point the finger of blame at anyone.

    Your detachment from family and drive for sexual pleasure from other women is not normal for a healthy person but it is the norm for a sex addict.

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  • handsignals

    Hope you didn't fall in love with that hooker Bro.

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    • SHAKEStheClown

      What's there to love?

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      • handsignals

        The unique features of her beautiful face...her soft slow touch...her beautifully sculpted body...the energy that emanates from her sole...

        *in fetal position, crying, masturbating*

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        • SHAKEStheClown

          I don't want a woman with energy emanating from her "sole." What kinda energy, foot fungus?

          Whores don't have souls.

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          • handsignals

            FUCK YOU ASSHOLE! Whores or hookers or human beings whatever you want to call them do have SOULS.

            "Were all born with the same size soul, it's circumstance that's brought us here today"

            And I'm so fucking sorry about my poor spelling and grammar I grew up in a poor area and went to a shit school FUCK ME RIGHT.

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            • SHAKEStheClown

              It's nothing personal, dude.

              What am I supposed to do, bypass a perfectly good opportunity to be a smart ass when I see it? To neglect such opportunities would just be a big waste, an insult to my red nose, big squeaky shoes and orange hair.

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  • JohnTrollinski

    Hah! Way to go!

    Why should you stay with someone that can't even satisfy you? Leave the wife and the kids, don't even tell them. Stay in Taiwan and be happy, It's what you deserve for having to carry around this burden

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  • (s)aint

    Cheating is NEVER justified! IF you are unhappy, leave!

    If you don't want a family you shouldn't have gotten one in the first place ...

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  • Wow... either a pretty good troll or a guy named Richard is screwed.

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Keep fuckin' that sushi sucker!

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