Angry about liking someone.

Is it normal to be angry with liking someone? There is this girl at my school that I know I am in love with. But there is no one on earth that is in her league. And I don't want to like her anymore. But I can't stop. I go to class with her and sit behind her, and I always say I won't even look at her. But in a few minutes I find myself staring at her. I can't help it. She is just such a nice person, and she is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen in my life. Is this normal? If so could you give me some advice?

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Based on 85 votes (79 yes)
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  • dollcandy

    GET TO KNOW HER! She's probably not the angel you imagine in your head...or maybe she is? Just spend a little time with her and she'll start to seem more like regular humans instead of some goddess. I felt like this about my boyfriend- that he was the most beautiful thing on earth. Tell me how it goes and if anything works for you- I'm still trying to not be in love with my bf lol. I feel for ya man.

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  • alv1592

    i kinda have that situation, only i'm a girl and it's a guy i can't get out of my head. we've been friends for a while but i haven't talked to him since may. do you talk to this girl at all? if not, maybe you should try to talk to her. good luck :)

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  • Mastersash

    u proly make her blush

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  • Etheredge92

    yes, it's normal. many times. people feel this way because they don't like anyone having that much power and control over their mental and emotional being.

    you should talk to her. take it slow. invite her to hang out with you AND common friends. get to know her.

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  • yumicpcake

    I'm having that same problem right now. But I've been with the same person for 7 yrs now. I wish I could tell you how to make it stop but I don't know how yet.

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  • dollcandy

    Oh also! If she knew how you felt about her she'd like you even more I guarentee it! She's definately a lucky one

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  • dude i was in same once but dont be fooled ur eyes are the ones in love cause if u dont know her personaly then she might not be the person u like

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  • ThePudgyOne

    you know you want her anyway :) you just don't see it that way. All I can say is it is normal to have anger but as long as that feeling does not hype up your adrenaline. You'll be HULK by the time it gets there lol. I'd say you can approach her and have a talk. Just because she looks way out of your league doesn't mean she won't go out with you, some like to go out with any guy but depends. I've seen MANY guys who look freakin worthless and still went out with a girl out of their league. And until this day forth, I have friends who met eachother of that situation and are married today. You decide though, you make the choices where you want to get at but don't haste or rush, take your time.

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