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I'm an offensive asshole with a seriously twisted outlook on life, a f*cked up divorced family, few friends, and a strange talent to make people either completely hate me or terrified that I'm gonna kill them. Ya I know it sounds like the whole "my life is crap feel sorry for me" bull that every mascara wearing p*ssy says, but really I'm just a messed up prick looking for a vent.
The life style you grew up in reflects your personality, but it's up to you to change who you will become and the outcome of your life will be soley on you and no one else.
Try "masterbation therapy" whenever u get depressed about it, or start being an asshole, pull out the lube and jack away!
1st step : accept that your an asshole
2nd step: list down why you are an asshole
3rd step: tell people on is it normal
4th step: be happy in the thought now you are probably a bigger asshole before you complete step 1
Don't put yourself down, in your own special way you are beautiful, you are unique, you are you. Nobody is the same as you.
Don't believe that you are an asshole because you will believe it and you are much better than that!
The only way things are going to change is if you change your outlook on life.
Agree with the above comment. The fact that people hate you doesn't bother you b/c you hate you. Get a better view of yourself. If people really fear you, you should worry. Get some help.
Try to put yourself in other people's shoes and try seeing the good side of people and life and act more friendly.
You need some help. Go to church. You might be lost, everyone has good in them. And you know you are an asshole because you have issues so don't fuck with other peoples life, unless your selfish aswell.
I thought it was impossible for ass holes to know the truth about themselves. Good job.
My boyfriend is the same way. He also has a messed up family with divorces and bitchy step moms and all that and he doesn't have many friends. But since he has confided in me, he has vented and is a lot happier. Just remember there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Just find a friend or cousin or someone to confide in!
There is actually alot of people just like you that are the same exact way. Some people hide it and some let it all hang out, I do which can lead you down a path of absolute destruction. You sound like you're young enough to have time to change it but if you wait like I did you will find yourself making bad decisions which will ultimately lead to even worse decisions and severe consequences.
Control your anger don't let it control you, change your outlook on life and find strength in the people around you. You sound scared of rejection so you push people away rather than letting them get to know the real you. Try and be nice to people and if they don't reciprocate forget them because there is billions of people in the world. Lol most divorced families are fuKed up so don't let that bother you.
Good luck bro, If you've been like this for a long time change will happen slowly so take your time on becoming a better person and your anger will most likely subside
The fact that you know your an asshole is a good start to helping your problem. I think things will get better in a few years time as you mature