Am l normal for continously asking a woman out?

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It's this woman I wrote a letter to telling her that I like her,she appreciated the gesture and I have tried to ask her out and she either gives me a vague "sounds great/fun" or gives me excuses on how much she has to cook for her business.Am I normal, I want to continue to try to ask her out on a date.She's really nice and she makes me happy,but I'm frustrated with her.

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Based on 32 votes (17 yes)
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  • MarcusD101
    7 years ago

    You either cut to the chase and ask her directly "Do you want to go out and when" or move on. Don't waste your time with people who will eventually waste yours.

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    • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#S2
      7 years ago

      God damn straight.

      Women are professionals at wasting men's time.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    7 years ago

    She does not sound interested. You need to stop wasting your time and find someone else.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Not taking notice to her disinterest? You're socially underdeveloped. As for your frustration, I recommend you read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' to understand the source of your anger.

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  • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#S2
    7 years ago

    I think they're calling that sexual harassment nowadays.

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    • AbnormallyAwesome
      7 years ago

      If she feels harassed she could have just told him "No" and be done with it.

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      • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#S2
        7 years ago

        Yes that's true but the reason women don't do that is because they want to waste men's time by pursuing them not only because they like being pursued but because it feeds their ego every man they've got on the "hook".

        Another reason they don't say "no" is because it allows them a constant supply of the most men so when a man dumps her for something better she'll have the next best in line.

        I said that's what "they're" calling it nowadays "sexual harassment" I didn't say that's what it was.

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        • AbnormallyAwesome
          7 years ago

          It's sad that some women are like that. It's also sad that some men don't recognise a woman like that.
          There's plenty of nice girls out there.

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  • Roustabout
    7 years ago

    Fact 3091: Many people mispronounce the name of Rochester New York as Rod Chester, New York. It is correctly pronounced, "O'Tezzel"... Despite the spelling.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    She isn't inrerested move on your just making yourself look pathetic. And a letter? Seriously? You would be done right there with me.

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  • walkingdildo
    7 years ago

    A woman does not have to give you any reason or explanation, nor does she owe you a certain response.

    Unless her answer is "yeah, sure, when are you free?" then she clearly does not want to date you and she feels uncomfortable (possibly rightfully so if you're badgering her about it) just saying no because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Since you're pestering her, she may well think you're a creep who'll knife her in the car park if she's too blunt with you.

    Leave her alone, either she clearly does not want to go on a date with you or possibly she is playing hard to get, possibly. If the latter is true then don't waste your time on her.

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  • Fatty_McJiggles
    7 years ago

    Don't waste any more of your time on her. If a man, any man, is spending his time on and with a woman and that same women is not having sex with him, it's a waste of time.

    Don't waste your resources on something that won't happen.

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  • _Mehhh_
    7 years ago

    If she was interested you'd know by now.

    I kind of understand how she feels in this situation so I'm not going to demonise her. She's not interested, but she's too polite to just say it and doesn't like upsetting people.

    She has, however, shown in her own way that she isn't interested. And that's a situation you've already lost, you can't possibly win here.

    Pursuing her further is only going to creep her out and make her even less interested. Not pursuing her, obviously, it going to lead to nothing anyway. But it's the better option because at least then you can walk away having pride that you're not a creepy stalker who can't take "no" for an answer.

    More girls will come along, and eventually you'll forget her. Don't be entitled.

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  • FORUMidableFucker
    7 years ago

    Fuck her, she is too busy bullshitting you or just get a direct answer.

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