Am i wrong

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Is it normal for a man to want you out of his life to basically cut of contact with you but still maintain a freindship or cordial relationship with the people closest to you .. .knowing that its gonna get back to you ? Yet he wants me to forget him...at one point in time i was in love with him and kinda still have sore spot for him and everytime he's mentioned its like reopening a closed wund .i tried to reach out and exsplain how this Has been bothering me for years but wound up lookin like a crazed stalker assuming he thought i was trying to get back with him((any advice or opinoins welcomed.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    try to forget him ,.go out and meet someone else, if he doesnt need you so be it, be carefree in his presence or when he is mentioned , fake it till it comes naturally and keep busy

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    • ummm?
      12 years ago

      Thanx for the advice:)

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Men do this all the time with the mother of their children. No big deal. He's not thinking about you at all when he talks to your friends, it's not about you to him!
    Sorry!

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    • ummm?
      12 years ago

      Riiite but I'm not the mother of his child an if what you say is tru y am i bring mentioned . And they were not friends befor so y start now.....

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      • joybird
        12 years ago

        He is a boy with a toy.

        He does not want you but if he is asking your friends about you, then he justs wants to make sure you are not going out with someone else.

        When he hears that you are then no doubt he will want you back - for a little while. Just until he gets bored with you again.

        Forget about him. He is playing games.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Men don't care really, sad I know.
    As long as you're not causing any issues to him, you can do whatever you like, he won't mind at all.

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    • ummm?
      12 years ago

      Bt hes the one doin it i always keep my distance.

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      • Dad
        12 years ago

        Thanks for the reply.

        I mean you sound sincere enough, and I can see your point that you hear about everything anyway through like friends.
        I suppose he's one of these people that likes his space and he 'may' be concerned that if you're immediately in his space that may cause some issues for him.

        I see you are respecting that, even though you still have deep feelings for him.

        I mean I wouldn't want you gone either as I think how you feel about these things too. He must have a slightly different personality to us. A little cold but each to their own personality, he must have better! things to do, and too busy for the ones that 'love' him.
        I don't know if the above is fully true or not (about him, and even you) But quite obviously its time to move on and to give your love to someone who will appreciate it.

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        • ummm?
          12 years ago

          Right on the nail and i plan to do just that .. thanks for the advice..

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  • Bebopulation3
    12 years ago

    I am in almost the same situation with my ex and it hurts so god damn much i dont have any advice sorry but it competely normal

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