Am i turning gay or bisexual for wanting a threesome?

I’m a straight guy whose been married for 16 years and I’ve been lucky that the sex has been great most of the time. The idea of a threesome, 2 girls and me, always sounded hot and it still does, but for the last few months I’ve been thinking about a threesome with my wife with another guy. I spend time thinking of her picking someone up, bringing him home and then she and I switching off giving him head and then her sitting back and watching the action for a bit. Am I turning gay?

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  • Douglanyard

    Its not gay if its in a threeway. With a honey in the middle there's some leeway.

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  • MagickWithoutTears

    ^^ Ha ha!

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  • Legion

    Probably not, but that depends, do you see yourself doing anything with him? if not, its like voyerism, except your a part of the action. Its actually more common than you think. Have you ever talked to your wife about having a threesome. Not everyone wants to, she might. (The fact that you want to have another guy involved might make her more willing.

    Oh, and if you want to do anything to the guy, Make sure to find a bisexual man. That would make you curious, but dont let that get to you.

    If you and your wife do go for it, and you enjoy it, she may want to do it again. and, if you do things to him as well and you both enjoy it, you might like it a lot better. She might even get turned on by that, and he may even want to be with you guys again.

    Have fun!

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    • rock119

      Thanks for the reply, i appreciate the feedback. I've never talked to her about it before. We have fooled around with another couple in the past so doing something sexual with other people is not shockingly new. but this would be a big jump. And yes, i would like to just let go and see how it feels. Just three people rolling all over the bed not worried about who is touching who or doing what. I think its a little embarrasing and that's always excited me when my wife humilates me a (just a little) in the bed. She's gone along with talking really dirty to me a few times about what i would do with another guy in the room, but i always play it off as being drunk and just going along with what she is doing. Still undecided on how to approach the idea. I have in the past given her a wish list of sexual ideas for my birthday and it is coming up. I was thinking maybe of putting a few of the normal stuff on there and sliding a few variations of a threesome as well. Just not sure. Again, appreciate the feedback.

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