Am i too horny?

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Hi guys im new here,
Im a dude and yea, my girlfriend doesn't like me getting sexual, AT ALL. We fondle with each other sometimes but only when she's over at my house in my room. We've never had sex and i don't think she wants to. She keeps trying to convince me to not get so sexual, to the point of even no fondling at all. And yes i do get a little horny at times and when we're alone in a room i'll tend to touch her on the private parts and she'll touch me as well. Is it normal for me to want to touch her and eventually want to have sex with her?

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  • QuiteTroubled
    12 years ago

    Wow thanks for the response. Means a lot to me. My question was more on the "Is it normal to want to have sex with her?" and what i should do. Yea i do put in effort to surprise her and do sweet stuff for her. For her birthdays, valentine's day which is coming up as well (intend to cook her dinner). And i also haven't touched her sexually for around a month now. About masturbation.. i try not to do it too much, sometimes it goes overboard and i'm afraid i do it too much.

    But i'm actually also wondering why she doesn't feel like doing it yet, i mean we're already at an age where you would want to experience it. She also did mention she NEVER masturbated before, ie. never had an orgasm before. So she also never lets me touch her vagina so i can't make her feel like doing it. She lets me fondle with her breasts at times the most.

    What would you guys suggest?

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    Sorry! I didn't realise that you try to touch her all the time.

    Give her space. You can be romantic with someone without having to touch them all of the time.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    It's normal, but I wouldn't really say that you're horny. You want to experience sex. What's wrong with that?

    Your woman seems to have a passing interest in it and that's okay too.

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    I didn't vote because I don't know which answer you're looking for. The post says, "Am I too horny?" The last question is "Is it normal?"

    Don't be surprised if the votes you get don't match the responses.

    No, I don't think you're too horny, but at the same time, if she doesn't like you touching her all the time, don't do it.

    If you can't control yourself when you're around her, try masturbating before you're going to see her. Then you will be less horny when you're with her.

    This may sound weird, but if you stop trying to touch her all the time, she may ask you why you're not attracted to her any more. That's when you can tell her you're just respecting her feelings and she may even initiate some contact with you.

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  • QuiteTroubled
    12 years ago

    So is there any way i can solve this? I can say she really dislikes it sometimes when i do try to touch her. But i just can't help it sometimes.

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