Am i the only one to ever deal with this kinda b.s.??

Uhm, no, that is called cheating. Faithfulness and age may correlate sometimes, SOMETIMES, but there need not be a causation relationship.

Let him know how you feel and if he does not respect that then you do not need to be seeing him unless you enjoy having an open relationship. Also, he sounds like a bit of a dildo.

Your boyfriend is an inconsiderate prick. Its not normal for men in relationships to be on adult chat sites. Hell, he shouldn't be on any chat sites! He obviously has absolutely no respect for you or your relationship, so I'd say kick his unfaithful ass to the curb. You're 33. You're way too young to settle for some cheating asshole. Do NOT try to work it out with him, leave him. Believe me, its in your best interest.

Well I was gonna say something. .. but ill thnk these ladies said it best...it very disrespectful, also considered cheating, and unfaithful, , inconsiderate, lieing,...and all the above...u dont deserve that.....

You know what they say, "you can't teach an old dog new tricks". I think they were referring to your boyfriend. He will never change and you obviously know at his age this is not appropriate and it's not even appropriate for somebody younger. You can either stay and deal with this dumb behavior or you can leave and not deal with it.

If one day, you met an apple, and thought to yourselvve, " damn, this apple sure is good" would that keep you from eating oranges and kiwis? Hell no. Monogamy doesn't work. Have an open relationship, or just accept that he cheats. Also, i wouldn't even call internet shit cheating. Unless his weenor is going in/around another woman's orfice/s, its no different than goin to a titty bar

Screw that crap. Leave him and pull someone fitter, younger and more attractive. This is your exciting new time now. Do it. The future you will be awesome ;-)

Make a fake profile with a porn star as your pictures and add him on the chat sites. Start flirting and get him to arrange a meeting whilst the real you is "having a spa day with your mother", then when he arrives at the agreed destination to meet his "hottie" he will be greeted by you and your friends in clown masks pelting him with piss-filled water balloons whilst the fiassco is filmed for YouTube. Don't forget to avoid the splash zone!! :D

jks dump his worthless arse.

You don't have to deal with that bullshit! Just put on your shoes and start walking. Its not good to be so desperate. Every minute you spend with this guy is time wasted. Don't be so afraid of being single.

He is 42. Do you know how many kids he has? Guys who behave like this in their 20's usually have 2 or 3+ by his age and all by different mothers.

He is 42. His youth is on the wane. Maybe he is trying to see whether he still has what it takes(Maybe).

He is 42. In 3 more years, he'll be sporting a soft serve instead of a hard-on.

You're 33, you can pull a twenty y/o to a 70 y/o.

You're not the only one to ever deal with this B.S. My best friends 21y/o daughter got pregnant by one such a-hole. A week after they agreed to get married he posted on Craigslist. He was looking to hook-up with a hottie. He had tickets to a baseball game. Literally, he stated, photo required - no fatties. This guys mother thinks the sun shines out her son's ass, no matter what.

Move on...

Why do you want to work it out with him if this is only the tip of the iceberg, so to speak? To be completely blunt, you're 33 and if you'd like to be in a good relationship, it won't get any easier to find, the older you get. So why waste time with this loser now, considering this relationship is doomed, anyway?
Get free of this guy, he'll cheat on you the first opportunity he gets, and go find a decent, caring guy.