Am i the only girl who doesn't give head?
I have no interest in giving head. Is this normal? Do most girls give head or is it normally not to?
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I have no interest in giving head. Is this normal? Do most girls give head or is it normally not to?
No, there are billions of girls in the world. A lot of them won't give head.
Source: I seem to have met them all.
I think it's normal, my friend and her boyfriend don't do oral. I don't give oral unless I'm in a commited relationship.
I kinda had an aversion to oral to begin with, but things really change when you actually care for your partner. It becomes a complete turn on to pleasure them and experience their orgasm, at least in my opinion. But, hey, if you just don't like it, I suppose you just don't like it- don't expect anything for yourself oralwise though!
Just tell him you have TMJ and you can't lol. Seriously though, sex should be intimate and a shared experience. If you don't want to perform oral then don't. Sorry to throw my fellas under the bus but most of us make too big of a deal about it anyway. As enjoyable as it can be, personally I would rather give than receive. Nothing is sexier than making her arch her back and moan from ecstasy.
I never used to enjoy it with previous boyfriends. But with my current BF I absolutely LOVE it. It is because I love him of course. But I think it also has to do with his size. His penis is very small and it fits perfectly in my mouth. And I love feeling him get hard in my mouth. With previous BFs, they were always too big and it would make me gag and hurt my jaw. But with my new BF is so perfect. I could keep his dick in my mouth all day.
I used to hate it when i first started having sex. And what I have notice in the years when I have been sexually active iis that I wouldn't do it for everyone I have been with because I feel disgust especially if he is hairy down there or the sex is generally not that good and they can't turn me on to that point. But with my boyfriend good I absolutely love it I can suck his cock for hours every day because I know that he will fuck the shit out of me after that...
Girls usually don't give head because they want to. Although I find it enjoyable sometimes, it's about pleasing your partner, not being a selfish lover.
My wife doesn't like giving me oral too. On the other hand, i love giving to her, btw. But this issue sometimes causes us a little fight or remarks, because i also love receiving.
But i guess it's normal. Although i would suggest you try to view it a different way and maybe you'll start to like it.
A lot of people don't, girls and boys. I think it's a shame because giving and receiving oral sex with someone you love and respect can be very sweet and tender and not remotely sinister. I really think you should try it in the context of a loving relationship, because you might find it more enjoyable than you expect. With that said, no-one has to like everything and you should resist pressure to do something you don't want to.
I respect your personal preferences, but I personally would not date anyone who did not enjoy oral sex.