Am i stupid?

I don't know how to tell it because i feel so stupid. Four days ago i kissed with a guy i don't love and not even know. We were just know each other for three days. It was my first kiss and i can't still understand why i did this with someone i don't love. I kinda regretful. Anyway, all he wants having sex with me or more than a kiss. I know i shouldn't do that but i've started to feeling something about him and i just can't give up about him. What should I do?

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  • I_steal_free_bread

    "If your unsure, its not love"

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  • wannarocktheworld

    its called being "horny"

    not love,not infatuation.
    that one kiss stimulated your brain to keep thinking of what next could come up and how much pleasurable it might be( i'm not saying sexually, but overall, like pleasure to one by hanging out with friends etc)

    so just don't and save yourself from further embarrassment, cause once he enters you then dumps you the next day, you know you will never forgive yourself

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  • bigpappasmurf

    By three days I've already had sex, cheated, broke up and gotten back together - ummmm maybe that's my problem.

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  • AngAnders112

    it's okay to kiss strangers and let them feel you up. experimenting is perfectly normal, we all do it.

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  • darren3

    Start with English class. Then move on to Math, History, And so on.

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  • "I have no clue about my level of intelligence, folks! I am doubting my mind because four days ago I kissed a guy that I don't even know! We had only met three days prior. It was my very first romantic kiss! I still can't understand exactly why I kissed a complete stranger... I sort of regret my actions. At any rate, this guy now wants me to have sexual intercourse with him! As crazy as it sounds, I have started to have deep and loving feelings for him. What should I do?"

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    Your "relationship" is progressing too fast. You have no idea with whom you are dealing. This guy could be crazy. He could have a ton of dangerous, contagious diseases. He could be a "world" of harmful things and you are a sitting duck for it all if you just rush into a relationship with him. He might even be a pimp and the next thing you know, he will be beating your ass, calling you a bitch, and asking you where his money is...

    Use your brain for a change.

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    • SMILEifyourstupid

      Thank's for deciphering that, I couldn't understand it before, now that you've translated the question, I can finally vote.

      Poll asker: Don't be naive, don't have sex with him, you don't even know this guy.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    It is called lust.

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  • phuckejiu

    Kill him

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  • Zesty

    I wouldn't say your stupid for what you did with the guy, but purely for the way you constructed your question.

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  • IpekCirakoglu

    I know it's not love, love can't be something so ridiculous like that.

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  • IpekCirakoglu

    I'll never sleep with that guy, i just feel some emonatiol things and i'm trying to figure out how to get rid of from them. That's my problem.

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  • dappled

    You're not stupid in the slightest. You're just learning how to live your life. None of us are born knowing exactly how to deal with things. We all learn along the way and one of the best ways of learning is making a mistake. Don't be embarrassed by them. Just treat them as lessons in life.

    P.S. I'm not sure sleeping with this guy is the best choice. Or, at least, not yet.

    Take care.

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  • "I made a mistake so I am going to talk about this mistake online and complain about it".
    How about think about the choices you make instead of just doing them which would save sites such as this from people like you who complain about the situations "they" make.

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  • MrsBailey9

    Don't kiss strangers is the first step. Stay away from the one you did is second. Don't be pressured into doing things you don't want to do, it can lead to being violated, you know raped. You have to be more careful... Use your brain! Just say NO! And RUN! Seriously.

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  • randomjelly

    18+. Call a teen hotline.

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  • rayst

    Yes you're stupid

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