Am i straight or bisexual? (according to my description)

I'm a 17 year old girl and I've found that I'm mostly attracted to guys and would most likely just pursue guys for future relationships. But, I still can't deny that I feel a small physical attraction to girls. If I ever fell in love with a girl, I'd definitely go for it, but I doubt it would happen.

Should I even bother to mention this small attraction by calling myself bisexual? Or should I just ignore it and say I'm straight?

Straight 85
Bisexual 154
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  • The way I see it, you'd just love the person for who he/she is. The gender doesn't matter. From your description, I'll call you normal. It's all you need to know.

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  • dom180

    Most people are bi to an extent, but a bi person will normally have a preference, it doesn't need to be a 50/50 split between guys and girls. I would call you bi, but only because almost everybody is to some level or another.

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  • FocoUS

    My sister said she was bi but leaned towards men 99% of the time. I told her that she was straight.

    I think you're straight.

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  • MissClaire

    meh, your just human.

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  • .:Jubilee:.

    Label are for cans, not people. (;

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  • maxtor

    you are what we call bicurious...you have never experienced being with the same gender so your mind will be made up after experience with the oppisite gender. it if very easy to become bisexual. i always was curious when i was younger as a young man and after a couple of times of sex with a man i can say that i am bisexual. i am not the romantic type with another man but more of the sexual type. i love receiving anal sex and love performing oral sex and playing around with a man, masturbating and sucking. i think it is great for a change of pace. i still love being with a woman and having sex with her but only do it when i get horny to have some anal sex. it gives me that fullfulled feeling and gives me a warm glow that i have loned for. i love feeling a man behind me and feeling him entering me and withdrawing and feeling his body against mine along with his testicles against me when he is all the way in. i am a bisexual and was bicurious before i tried it.

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  • thebone12

    you rock sweet lips id go for it even if you got a dud its so hot!

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  • Hmmaybe

    It's a scale from completely heterosexual to comletely homosexual. You're in the middle, but close to the heterosexual end. e.g. If 0 was heterosexual and 100 was homosexual. You might be around 30 or 35.

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    • GetInMyVan

      There's also an official scale known as the Kinsey Scale. The scale ranges from 0 to 6. 0 is completely, strictly heterosexual, while 6 is completely, strictly homosexual. 3 is bisexual, and X is Asexual, or Non-sexual. In this case, the asker is probably a 1.

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  • December

    I think you're straight. A small physical attraction doesn't make you bi. You say yourself that you most likely wouldn't fall in love with a girl. I think to say you are attracted to a gender you need to have two things: physical attraction and emotional attraction. You only seem to have physical attraction towards girls and both to guys. So... yeah, straight.

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  • ALLoftheabove

    Yea your definitely straight

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  • randypete

    just have fun

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    You're whatever you chose to be.

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  • crispycreamy

    Spend a night with me and i'll make you straight ;P

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  • nikki_5610

    I think you're bicurious. I feel you though, I sometimes fantasize about girls :) but I don't think i'd ever do anything with themm...

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  • mmmmmmmmm

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  • uksnowboots

    don't do that...be normal..

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  • fuck'em

    It seems like all girls have that little bit. Nothing to stress over, you're probably straight.

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  • theartist89

    I'd say you're pretty curious.

    I don't tend to think that someone is bisexual until they've had experiences with both sexes. (I have done things with both).

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  • 14sammyjean

    If you love a girl, you love a girl. If you love a guy, you love a guy. What does it matter if you fall in love with a guy r a girl? You love who you love and you love who's worth loving.

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  • I'm straight but me and my best friend do stuff naked all the time. I've never pondered if I am bi or lesbian.

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  • clareling

    I hate the term bicurious because it has the connotation of drunk college girls "experimenting."

    I'm not going to say you're straight with resounding certainty. Why does it have to be either/or? The terms are there to divide and are politically expedient for the heterosexual tyranny. Just treat your partner(s) with respect and affection.

    Queer it up a bit and don't worry about the terms.

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  • EzioAuditore

    You're totally straight, but from the (little) experience I've had with gals I could say that almost all girls are a little bit attracted to the same sex.

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  • BigBadBrad

    All women are to a certain degree bisexual, and this is completely normal. I don't care what you hear from who, it is a natural fact of sexuality on this planet. Women love women, and that's okay.

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  • Dozis

    What you are feeling isn't love,more than half the time it's just lust.Need for attentions and something deeper than just a friendship.Thinking that Sex is something,an action capable of creating a stronger bond between two people makes it possible for you to get all aroused and wet whenever you find a girl who's beautiful or sexy or funny enough or any other positive attribute you might notice in her and that makes you believe that if you get into the whole thing,you'll end up having somebody you consider as:a little more than just a friend.
    Like an "intimate friendship",but the whole sex factor,just makes everything more difficult.Complicates things.If you already engaged in casual sex then you are just asking this question because you are afraid of what the men in your life might think about it.So If I give you an answer now,it would serve as an encouragement,and if by doing that you end up in some sort of trouble fucking your mind up,then I turn out to be the one responsible and I don't wanna cause anything in particular to happen to anyone.So,make your own choice.I'm just giving you the choice I never had.

    Speeches aside,fantasizing about having sex with members of your same sex doesn't make you gay.
    It makes you:A girl who wants to find out if other girls also have a snatch and how it looks like and how they react to stimulation.Amongst other things.
    If you introduce yourself saying:Hi!I'm (whatever your name is)and I'm bi,you might get unwanted reactions of either repulsion or exxagerated interest or even fake acceptance which then becomes a smearing campaign and you are fucked!I'm not telling you to get in the closet and stay there.
    Just protect your own reputation and say it,if you really have to,to who "gives off the right signals".
    Keep in mind that it will most likely make you more fit to hang out with certain people than other people.That's all.

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  • BrittyAnn

    see, i felt the same way, and now i realize i am bisexual, but idk if it's the same for you, maybe you should experiment a little, but don't go overboard, and don't try with a girl who could be against it...

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  • biking1996

    i disagree with alot of these people no afens i am bisexual but i am a guy first question how long have you been fealing this was because that could tell alot if you like girls and guys it dose not nessasarily mean you are bisexual but listening to you i think you are and if you are you can except it or not it is your choise if you except it search this link http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-bisexual-89394/ and it will help you with you feelings but dont worry listen to your heart and it will give you the answer

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  • isaactaruma23

    its totally normal if you like a girl. we all do it too. that girl maybe more slim, smart, hot, populars than us.. its normal.
    its just like a bestfriend. we love our bestie. thats a different 'love'.
    normal! and straight!

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