Am i straight or bi?

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I'm a woman who loves men and sex, but I crave oral sex more than intercourse. Whenever I'm alone (and horny), I watch a lot of porn or read a lot of romance/erotica books (mainly stories about straight sex.) Sometimes when I find straight porn too hardcore and disgusting,I sometimes watch lesbian porn. I don't usually desire women, but when I see them go down on each other (in porn flicks), I get really turned on. Lately,I've been having dreams about receiving oral from both men and women. My question is; Does this sounds like I'm straight or Bi, and is this normal?

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  • AquaTurtle
    11 years ago

    If you want to be reallllly simple about it, being attracted to the opposite sex is considered 'straight', being attracted to the same sex is 'gay' and being attracted to both is 'bi'. So simply, you're bi.
    I can be turned on by watching lesbian porn. I've read a few lesbian erotica stories in my time. I've had lesbian sex dreams. If you gave me a woman in a room, I'd have no idea what to do with her, and no real desire to. They're not simple definitions and you don't have to fit into one.
    I personally define gay as being happy to have a relationship with someone of the same gender. Bisexual is being happy to have a relationship with either gender. Sex and relationships are two completely different things in my book.
    I think watching oral sex isn't about WHO it is but WHAT they're doing. You're turned on because you see it happening and it stimulates the memory of what it feels like. Also, like you said, straight porn can be rough, whereas lesbian porn can be gentler and more caring.
    You're normal :)

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    only you can decide your own orientation.

    you can be straight but enjoy lesbo porn. it doesn't make you a lesbian or bi unless you want it to.

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    I think you are straight. Also what you see on tv and watch will effect your dream. So even if you are not gay and watched it you might have dreams.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    A couple of night ago I dreamt that Celine Dion's tongue was visiting my valley. It was great

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    • reneesmee
      11 years ago

      Y were u fantasizing about Celine Dion? Are u a big fan of hers, or do u find her particularly attractive?

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      • kelili
        11 years ago

        Not a big fan and i don't think that she's attractive in any way. I love some of her songs but that's it. I was dreaming..

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  • kinda
    11 years ago

    you are normal you have these dreams because you are watching sex moves too much but you can admit it girls are attractive too :) so you are bi and being bi is normal so you are normal anyway

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    It doesn't matter unless it's important to your identity.

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  • mythicpoultry
    11 years ago

    Your just bi-curious babe and most people are.

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  • Iamagirl
    7 years ago

    You are most likely heterosexual or possibly heteroflexible. I think most women find other women attractive. Maybe find someone to experiment with if you really want to know. You could be bi. Sexuality isn't just clean-cut like people think it is, so it's ok to be confused. In the end, only you can decide who you are.

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  • 800imawesome
    11 years ago

    Do you like women? If you don't, no.

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    • reneesmee
      11 years ago

      Yeah, Kinda; but like Aqua Turtle, I wouldn't know what 2 do with 1 in real life nor would I want 2. They(women) only seem appealing 2 me in the world of porn.

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