Am i straight, gay, bi or just a prude?

So this has been bugging me for probably six years now and i've never really had a place to confront this issue. I'm wondering if i'm bisexual. I had a girlfriend for about a year and I was really turned on by her, but i find that most of the time i am attracted by the thought of being held in a guy's arms but when i'm actually sexually interacting with a woman, I become incredibly attracted to her. I've been kind of avoiding relationships because I don't want to hurt someone with what could be a lie. Idk i just wanna to know if i'm in denial or if it's something i'll outgrow or if i need to put myself out there more or if it's maybe somewhat normal? (excuse the major run-on sentence ending this)

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Comments ( 15 )
  • jezzabella12

    for now you wanna fuck guys and girls. but in the end i think you will marry a girl and have a family.

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  • awsomedude

    its normal alot of people go though with it your just sexualy confused

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  • jak1234

    you are bi

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  • abear

    You are bi-curious. You have the thought of being in a guy's arm , but the fact that you haven't tried it either means you are straight or shy.

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  • alv1592

    it sounds like you're equally attracted to guys and girls, so i'd say you're bi.

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  • Your fucking gay

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  • Gidget

    Find a man

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  • FRoWNiNGkIttY

    There is really no such thing as 100% gay or straight anyway. I have had feelings for both men and women, and am attracted to both. I am currently in a relationship with a man, but I have had time to sexually mature, and I am now committed to just one person. If the sex is good, carry on!

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  • XxlimeyxX

    How old are you? because it could be the hormones rushing around your body it happens to alot of teens. Or you are a bi

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  • Mattman149

    One thing that might interest you is the "Kinsey Scale" (it's on wikipedia). It's a scale invented by groundbreaking sexologist Alfred Kinsey in the mid 1940's-50's that hypothesizes that, while most people will fall into one of the three socially accepted categories of sexuality, there are many people who fall in between.

    You shouldn't necessarily feel like you need to conform to the labels of "straight", "bi", or "gay" if you don't feel totally comfortable with them.

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  • bimomate

    I think your gay. Im pretty sure you said, you only feel attracted to women when actually having sex?

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  • yscband

    Count how many times you have actually dated a female and compare those to the number of guys you have had a close friendship with. If you have dated girls more than once then you want girls but if only one girl has had your heart Your desire for guys is keeping your heart from having a relationship with anyone person. Stay with the one you love and stop lying to yourself.

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  • beckie19

    your attracted to both men and women... u like the attraction, but you dont feel so comfortable in settling down with either sexes as ur unsure or maybe just scared to admit that u r bi... you're worried what ppl might say?... ur attracted to women... but find the comfort of a man more appealing. my opinion is tht u are defintly bisexual.. u attract both men and women... think about it carefuly though... don't rush your choices. maybe u can jus see how it goes... date anyone u feel interested in male/female.... untill u find the one who u fall in love with wether maleor female,.... jus follow your heart see where that takes u.... good things happen in the end... jus gota have patience.. you'll see .

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  • XypherWolf

    Give it a year or two, if it's just a phase, then you really shouldn't worry about it. Otherwise try to explain your feelings to her. (WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T MAKE IT SOUND LIKE YOU DON'T WANT HER.) If she's really intrested in you, this shouldn't be a problem for her.

    Also, theguyfromthenetherlands, you just discribed my perfect woman. :P

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  • theguyfromthenetherlands

    1 hint, find a girl that has man behaviors! =) Look if you wanna do it with a guy then you are bi! But if you imagine things like getting hold by a man find a girl that has man manners =) That hold you like a man but is a girl!

    Solution!!

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