Am i still normal?

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Okay, for two years now I have pretended to be in love with my step-father because he is honestly in love with me. I have had sex with him more times then I can count....I don't like it and I'm afraid of what can happen if I tell someone, he has a great family and I don't want to tear it apart. I'm a lesbian (which is something he won't admit), I'm constantly sexually harassed but I pretend to like it because I'm afraid of what will happen.

I'm from a family with many,many problems and I am trying to deal with severe depression. Honestly I don't know what to do, I hope someone can help. Thanks.

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Based on 23 votes (3 yes)
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  • noid
    8 years ago

    Tell your mother what her husband's doing?

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    • sillygirl77
      8 years ago

      Most definitely tell your mother. Also talk to a school counselor or therapist.

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      • Animeviewer29
        7 years ago

        Thank you. I am the girl who made this post a long time ago and honestly I left a lot out. He was flat out raping me and I didn't want to admit it. I was so damn terrified. You guys kind of scared me and I didnt say or do anything for another year. But i'm finally out of that situation. thank you so damn much for helping me.

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        • sillygirl77
          7 years ago

          I'm glad you are out of the situation and glad me and others could help *hugs*

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    If this is true you have two choices: continue as you are which is totally unhealthy, or speak up to your mother or the police or both. He's using and abusing you, he has you fooled that he's "honestly in love with you" - it's called grooming.

    He's already torn apart his great family all by himself, they just don't know it yet.

    Depending on how old you are, there is of course the third choice of moving out and staying away from him

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  • jay_jay2012
    8 years ago

    Looks like to me he taking advantage of you because he nos your down and you will say yes if I was you bring a female around and say in front of him that its your girlfriend and make it clear she is dosnt matter if she is and if I was you I would try and talk to your mother better to get her to bond with you so you can trust her to tell her hope you can get it sorted because its wrong and how long has he been your step dad and what age was you when it first started

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    • Animeviewer29
      7 years ago

      Thank you. I am the girl who made this post a long time ago and honestly I left a lot out. He was flat out raping me and I didn't want to admit it. I was so damn terrified. You guys kind of scared me and I didnt say or do anything for another year. But i'm finally out of that situation. thank you so damn much for helping me.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    Don't you think you deserve better than this? Nobody should put up with this so why are you? You shouldn't feel guilty about telling someone. Trust me when I say this is on him, not you! You won't be the one tearing him and his family apart. He's already making his own shit, and it's time he lays in it! I would think telling anyone in your family would go a long way.

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    • Animeviewer29
      7 years ago

      Thank you. I am the girl who made this post a long time ago and honestly I left a lot out. He was flat out raping me and I didn't want to admit it. I was so damn terrified. You guys kind of scared me and I didnt say or do anything for another year. But i'm finally out of that situation. thank you so damn much for helping me.

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