Am i ruining my life?

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Okay so i am a bit of a NEET and don't like to go outside very often,and i still live with my family.its march/21/2015 now and in the past three months i have only gone past my mailbox 2 times.I know it's not healthy to stay inside like this all the time but i don't know what i want to do with my life yet,and i am very shy and have a lot of social anxiety.I don't know how i can get past these things but i know when the time comes i will not ask for help.I know that this is just ruining my chances of becoming a socially normal person but i don't want to be one,i want to stay in my room and just be happy,but if i do my life will be completely gone,i will have no money,no job,and end up all alone.
I don't know what i should do,if i should stay living a happy carefree life,or be unhappy and live a moderately fulfilling life.

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idontcareforthem

9 years ago

READ your bible, dear. Seek and call out to JESUS, GOD, and the holy spirit. Pray the depression away and call out to him..the devil is trying to hold you back!...Dont let him cause the misery and mental sickness over you. Watch tbn, daystar, or the word network( whichever you prefer) and watch your life and outlook start to change(WHEN you start to accept him in your heart)...and make this a daily effort to do at least one a those a day for your life to change for the better until you get more mentally stronger and stronger day by day to do many works for him so maybe one day you can be a testiment to his love, life and goodness as well ;) God bless you..

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MissDethstar

9 years ago

Are you truly happy this way ? Think about it, if you could do anything in the world and money didn't matter what would you want to do ? If it's not staying in your room you really need to get help. If fear is holding you back from going into the world then this is not happiness, it's a need of security because of your anxiety.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Wow!I never thought about it that way.I do kind of want travel around the world with nothing holding me back or live on the streets like a hobo and travel around to wherever i want to go.
  but i don't know.Thx 4 the concern tho,I appreciate it :)
  
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  - johnho
    
    9 years ago
    
    Think about it, most of the replies have been positive and caring, from people that don't even know you on a personal level; yet a lot of us have felt you you are feeling and we want to try to help. I hope you keeping pushing forward.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      thanks,and i hope i do keep on pushing forward.
      and thanks for the your concern it means a lot that people can care even if they don't know each other like that. :)
      
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      - johnho
        
        9 years ago
        
        Exactly, humankind still cares about each other. We are all fighting similar if not the same battles in different places. Keep smiling!
        
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natdrum

9 years ago

I feel exactly like you :/

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Really?at least i know that there's somebody out there who can relate. :]
  
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  - johnho
    
    9 years ago
    
    Of course, you would be surprised how many, these are the things you find out when you reach out and communicate.
    
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  9 years ago
  
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RoseIsabella

9 years ago

Get help!

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- johnho
  
  9 years ago
  
  Exactly, you are reaching out here and that is saying you want help. You don't want to feel this way, I know, I went through a bad phase, your friends will ask you out and you just don't want to, reach out. Let yourself be helped. It is a difficult road you can do it.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I know i should,i know i need it but i just dont want any.
  
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  - BobbyTheBear
    
    9 years ago
    
    Then why are you here if you don't want help? Attention would be my guess then.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Well of coarse i wanted some attention,i'm all alone in my room all day and would love a little bit of attention even if it is anonymous.
      
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      - johnho
        
        9 years ago
        
        Then let the positive attention give you a positive outlook.
        
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  - johnho
    
    9 years ago
    
    You say you don't if you didn't want any help you would not of posed the question here..
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      i know,i guess i did want a little help. :)
      
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