Am i right or am i wrong?

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Recently I went on a trip to see my father and his mom. I'm still a teenager and I haven't seen my fathers side of the family in a long while. When I came back I found out that my mom is pregnant by a guy who has 5 kids and she has 3 of her own. Soon to be 4. She's only known and dated this guy for 5 months! They don't even have good chemistry. So naturally the most rational thing to do is to leave her. Keep in mind that she has 2 previous baby daddy's. One being my father. I left because I knew that when that baby would come she would make me take care of that kid just like she made me practically raise my half brother who is 8 and barely knows how to read. I feel I have every right to leave and completely cut her out of my life. I'm so angry about this and all the previous things shes done to ruin my life and everyone else's lives.She makes the most selfish decisions. Why would I want someone like that in my life? Well my grandmother doesn't think I should cut her off. She says I should love her no matter what. I have no problem cutting her off. It honestly won't hurt. Some advice and encouragement would be much appreciated. Thank you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    That's a tough situation for you, it is not fair. Maybe you should get away to save yourself from her and her irresponsibility (if you can, safely). Try not to cut her completely out of your life though because you may still want to keep in touch with your siblings and that could be difficult if your relationship with your mother is so strained.

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  • Orchid
    11 years ago

    If you have a different place to live then you should leave. You are right, you shouldn't have to raise her kids. She's the one acting like a teenager.
    Do what you feel is right. If you are so angry at the moment that you want to cut her off then so be it. Just remember that in the future you will probably regret it (even if you think that you won't). I know quite a few people who are bitter for not having their parents around for different reasons. It's just easier to forgive especially someone like your mom. She'll still always be your mom.
    I think you should explain how you really feel and tell her you still love her. Then leave. If she flips out then it's on her. But yeah, leaving is a good idea. Maybe she'll learn to appreciate people in her life a little more.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I tole her how I felt. She doesn't seem to care. I even compromised with her. I suggested she get an abortion because everyone around her is going to suffer including that baby. It's not like she hasn't had one before. But she refuses to. I can't force her to so I left. I told how selfish she was and her reply was I'm a brat for leaving. HAHA. My older brother who is my full brother is 18. My father said not to worry about my half brother. I still kinda wonder what he's gonna grow up like but I can't do anything to control that.

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  • redrosesinspace
    11 years ago

    Having a selfish parent is one of the most annoying things ever. Hey dad, thanks for leaving. You're the best. -_-

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  • danielle36691
    11 years ago

    I know how you must feel...my mom does stuff that gets me in the same mood..lime letting guys move in with us that she onlyknew for about a month! And drink all the time and get in to big embarssing arguments with the guy in public places! Sometimes i feel like i want to run away

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Rabbit or HABIT?

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  • XiaoLou
    11 years ago

    You should cut her off and live with your dad.

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