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I don't understand how a woman can have a difficulty finding a sex partner. All they have to do is dress nicely, go into a crowded place and wait - men will come to them ON THEIR OWN.
Am I right to think this way?
Maybe they don't want to have sex with the people offering. So maybe it's harder in the sense of finding someone they like enough. I can't speak for every woman, though, of course.
The next time you go out somewhere, I want you to look -- no, really *look* -- at the people around you. I guarantee you that you will see at least a handful of women who cannot just "dress nicely, go to a crowded place and wait" to find a sex partner at all, let alone one who might meet their standards of physical, mental and social attractiveness.
I guess they might theoretically be able to find some guy who looked like Emperor Palpatine in sweat pants, but c'mon, you can't tell me you think that sweet little old lady with two teeth in her head and boobs to her knees just needs to fix herself up a little to find a stud, can you? She might be a wonderful person, but most people don't see her as a sexual being.
Next time you're out and about, think about propositioning every woman you see, not just the ones you like to look at. You'll be amazed at how many women you typically consider invisible.
Some women don't have sex with men. Some women aren't conventionally attractive.
How many beautiful well dressed women have you approached in your life time? I'm sure you have the balls to go up and attempt to get an attractive female into bed with you, right? Hmm.. probably not. I'm guessing it's not as easy as standing in a crowded place and waiting for men to swarm..
My point exactly. It is easier to stand and wait, than it is to actively act.
I don't think dressing nice is a requirement. Most women will have piles of men chasing after them for the fact they are in fact women. Women are a lot more judgey.
A guy might fuck a girl since she has a nice body no matter how much he likes her or how ugly he thinks her face is. What they would call a butterface. Women will date a man based on money, social standings, who they are friends with all that.
A man just thinks "Well is she fuckable"? most of the time. I really don't understand how any female cant get a date. Unless maybe the social classes are based souly on money/race. Tows like this are really unpleasant to begin with though.
Some girls are shy or socially awkward, some have a really low self confidence. Some have the misfortune to have really hot friends so they get ignored when they go out. Some girls are only ever propositioned by creepy/old/unattractive men, some girls have a "standard" that has to be met. Some girls don't look attractive at first glance, some girls do not know how to dress for their body types. sometimes they go to the wrong clubs at the wrong times, and sometimes they're too scared of being raped to go home with a strange guy.
Take your pick.
Girls have an easier time getting sex than men. Especially if they are attractive.
Yes, you have the right to think that way. I feel the same way, I never understood females who had problems finding a partner until I had a talk with my stepsister about it. A lot of women have trouble dressing nicely and others who don't have a sexual partner until a certain age are socially awkward and shy. I guess there's always an issue.
Women wanna be loved (most of them). SO they want a caring sex partner, who will respect her. Although they might be a bitch to their partner.
Women tend to be more emotional about sex.
I mean, we have a lot of shit to worry about. It's easier for us to contract STIs, we can get pregnant, all kinds of bad mojo. So, if we just go out and fuck random guys, we could end up totally screwed over.
Some people accept this risk. Many don't want to chance it.
unless their specifically after no strings fun..i think girls would rather want to find out if a bloke is the 'real deal' who genuinely wants them. If a bloke came up to me and jumped straight into sex I'd run