Am i really in love and does she really like me?

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Iv been hanging with this girl for about 7 months now. started out a little but over the last month or two its close to everyday. We have been best friends this whole time, but secretly i always had a thing for her. She came out of an engagement back in may. long story short. iv been have crazy feelings for here and it makes me feel like im crazy. ill confess to her how much i care for her and how iv never had these feelings for someone before. She really means the world to me. I think shes perfect and i want to spend every moment with her. at first she told me she never thought of me that way before but then told me she liked me but wants to take it slow. we always talk about how perfect we are for each other. I want her so bad, and want her to want me. She says she wants the same but wants to take it slow because she doesnt want to screw this up. Theres also drama with her x..... Iv been feeling that she doesnt have really true feelings for me and if she does nothing would matter and she would be into us..

i love her and she loves me or likes... 17
i love her and she doesnt like me but is holding on to our friendship 13
i dont love her and am just having crazy feelings 11
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  • nondanta
    12 years ago

    Well I think this can workout but you'll chase her away if you keep pushing like this. Stop saying you're perfect for eachother, stop being avaliable. Remember you're on your own. Be a little more selfish. Make her jealous, make her angry, play with her a little. Make her think she's going to lose her chance if she doesn't act soon. When you're sure she really wants you just stop talking crap and kiss her. See if that works out.

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    • yotaisgame1
      12 years ago

      I get you but, playing games is dumb though. If people like each other they should just say it and do their thing. Im really tired of worrying about this shit so im trying to move on, or at least take a break. Im leaving for vacation after xmas so hopefully that'll help me.

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    If she says she likes you, believe her. If there is still baggage from her ex, it is expected for her to take it slow. If you're still not convinced, just ask her in no uncertain terms if she wants to be with you, and trust her reaction.

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  • yotaisgame1
    12 years ago

    I had broken up with my x of 3 years about 1 year ago. So i know what its like to love someone. But this time with her its different, it makes me crazy and my emotions are so strong it freaks me out. I dont know how to take her with this lets take it slow stuff. Im trying but its really hard.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      she might not want to end up alone again.. if u realy love her then blieve she likes u and go slow.... even if ur whole soul,body, n heart is telling u to go fast!

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  • yotaisgame1
    12 years ago

    its def over. she just dropped off the earth one day and has acted the same since. I got hurt pretty bad and from what i can tell she doesnt care. so much for friends.

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  • jenifferquits
    12 years ago

    just take it slow man ..you know haste cause waste and on that she might have various things to deal with

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  • yotaisgame1
    12 years ago

    we talked today I told her how unsure she comes off and yada yada her exact words, "well of course im unsure. I like you dont think i don't but there's shit in my life im trying to sift through so i can finally be whole again and not be broken like i am. I know you want to date but i cant give you that right at this moment."

    what do you think of this? I have a hard time looking at it as it says cause of my feelings for her.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      i'd move on man. Doesn't sound like a road you want to go down, especially if she's seen other guys after the break up. Seems like she's looking for flings and hey, if you're willing to wait for her to have her fun than wait.

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      • yotaisgame1
        12 years ago

        I think im moving on. Im pretty sure she's pulling away from me so im closing. Been hurt enough already.

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        • [Old Memory]
          12 years ago

          You can do it, man! Good luck.

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          • yotaisgame1
            12 years ago

            thanks

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  • yotaisgame1
    12 years ago

    Its emotionally draining for me. Im not fully sold she likes me and wants to pursue a relationship. I really havent seen any signs other then she's text me that she likes me, and told a friend she likes me. But other then that we made once while at a club. We were both buzzed, i try to cuddle with her quit often and when i do she never really acknowledges it. Iv talked to her about it several times, and i never get the feeling that she likes me and doesnt seem to back up her words. Im so lost and acting fucking crazy. I dont think i can ever go back to just being friends even though she has been my best friend most of this year, its just to hard. If we did stay friends and another guy came around, id either kick his ass or tell her off and never talk to her again. she keeps telling me she needs time which i respect but without any reassurance from her im going fucking nuts. It just really feels one sided. If it didnt i wouldnt feel this way.

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  • yotaisgame1
    12 years ago

    I will also add that between her break up with her fiance and now she saw a few guys which one she dated and another kinda had a fling. Both she jumped right into. They were all d bags. Thats kinda what i dont get. Why them and not me.

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    • RockerRoseanne
      12 years ago

      Because she cares about you. I love my bestfriend but he doesnt want a relationship because he thinks her will screw it up and lose me. However, I'm happy to either wait untill he decided to give it a go, or just remain his bestfriend.

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