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Okay, I don't think I'm racist, but I have weird feelings about ethnic guys. When it comes to girls, it's not the same. But I could never ever see myself with a black or Hispanic guy. Not cuz I'm racist or anything, but when I think about it, I just think they would look gross naked, idk why..
Anyone else feel similar?
Normal, probably, but that's unfortunate. This is probably a form of internalized racism, that is, racism that isn't necessarily hate-based but is subconscious and affects your worldview. This kind of thing is why people of color have a harder time getting jobs, even when the person doing the hiring is "not racist." There's a subconscious aversion or assumption that they're not as good.
I do defend the right of people to be attracted to whatever they're attracted to, (seriously, I just saw a question on here where someone was turned on by dogs, attraction is not a choice) but I think you need to examine these feelings and understand *why* you feel that "ethnic guys" aren't as sexy.
How would they look any different compared to a white guy, aside from skin color anyway?
Your question is: "Am I racist" but you stated in the paragraph: > "Not cuz I'm racist or anything" hahahahaa sounds like someones confused.
I wouldn't worry, you just have different tastes and want someone that you can relate to.
I don't really want to date anyone but it seems normal enough to me.