Am i racist for thinking white women look better with blonde hair?

I'll see a photo or be out shopping and think "She looks nice with that color, such a pretty girl." If I see a before and after dye job (because I was googling it since I'm a first time hair bleacher and kind of scared) I'll think that with blonde hair she looks prettier/nicer/kinder/more elegant/natural, even smarter. With platinum hair they look like angels. I feel the same about Asian women with snow pale skin. Is this normal?

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  • CreamPuffs

    It's not racist. Racism would be thinking that women with blond hair are inherently better in every way then women with any other hair color. Your personal preferences of attraction do not define how you feel about a particular race.

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    • Thank you. A friend called me racist (quite a few actually, on a skype chat even though I only know one of them in person).

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      • RoyRogers

        That might just be a preference, however generally certain hair or eye color or just clothing choice looks worse or better depending on your complexion. Like you can be white with blonde hair, but if you are too pale, it might just make you look like a ghost. Which if you know anything about make up, you are suppose to try and match these colors up correctly, along with head size, body size and so on in order to make the person look the best they can.

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      • CreamPuffs

        They either misunderstood what you said, don't know what racism is, or perhaps you worded it poorly to them. For example, you say:

        "I think that with blonde hair she looks prettier/nicer/kinder/more elegant/natural, even smarter."

        When they may have misheard it as, interpreted it as, or perhaps you misworded it as:

        I think that with blonde hair she she is definitely prettier/nicer/kinder/more elegant/natural, even smarter."

        As long as you understand that being blond doesn't make anyone a morally better or more intelligent person, then I don't see how you could be racist about it.

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        • I'll admit I have a mild complex because my relatives are nicer to my blonde siblings and nieces.

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  • _Mehhhh_

    I don't think it's necessarily "racist" to have that preference although I do question why you attach those particular qualities to blonde hair. Words like "Racism" are thrown around too liberally these days over relatively petty trivial shit.

    That said I think everyone's natural hair colour compliments them best. I'm not so keen on this trend of everyone needing to have dyed blonde or red hair in order to be "sexy". Just wear the colour that best compliments your skin, which in virtually everyones' case is their natural tone.

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  • Goku19

    Am i racist for thinking white women look better with black hairs ? Hair colour says nothing about the nature of person. I am attracted to brunettes and you are attracted to blondes.

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  • arthurtheaardvark99

    it depends on skin color and features. some white girls look better with blonde hair, some white girls look better with brown hair.

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    • That's true. I had to think about it.

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  • funlovingbitch

    That's silly now days who has there natural colour hair I'm a natural red but at moment in platinum blonde and Christmas I'm going brunette

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    • Nice.

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  • Tealights

    It's normal and not racist. A large percent of the population find those with blond hair and blue eyes more trustworthy and attractive; basically, you're like everyone else.

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  • New-Zealand-Guy

    The fact you prefer white women with blonde hair is not racist in any way. So therefore no, you are not being racist. It is just what you prefer and everyone has an idea of what they like in the way of looks no matter how much they say looks don't matter to them. The only thing I would say is make sure you understand that women with blonde hair are not automatically better women than dark haired women just because they have blonde hair. Remember, there are lovely blonde and dark haired women and really bad women with blonde and dark hair. So just make sure you don't come across with a hateful attitude towards dark haired women before you have even talked to them because that would be unfair. Other than that there is nothing wrong with preferring blonde hair on white women. :)

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    • Thank you, I understand.

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  • autumnjoi2001

    No. Your not racist at all maybe you just like blonde girls... It would be different if you said you like white girls and not black girls.

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