Am i oversexed?

I'm a girl and i've been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now. it seems like i want to have sex with him way more frequently than he does with me and for longer as well.
dont get me wrong i do enjoy it but he's even said it to me before, its like i wanna do it every day at least once and sometimes i even get in a bad mood if i dont get it. i dont think he can be bothered dealing with it anymore and its probably really frustrating for him.
i just dont want to ruin our sex life or relationship. is it normal for me to be like this?

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  • SweetAdeline

    It doesn't sound like you have much of a sex life to ruin. If he doesn't want sex now, imagine what it will be like in five years! Get rid of him before you marry the eunich, have kids (though that's doubtful) and feel you can't leave. The situation isn't going to improve, it's just to get worse and worse until you end up in a sexless marraige feeling you're too old to find someone else.

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    • i say your boyfriend should be glad he has a girl like you because not all girls want to do everyday. but it's more usual for a guy to want sex

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    • littleone

      Sadly, I agree with this.

      Find someone you are sexually compatible with. It's so so SO important.

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  • dandee82

    EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT SEXUAL DRIVES AND LEVELS, YOURS IS OBVIOUSLY MUCH HIGHER THAN HIS, SO HERE'S A FEW THINGS YOU CAN DO, CONTROL YOUR SEXUAL DRIVE BY MASTERBATING , YOU'D BE SURPRISE WHAT A LITTLE RELIEVE CAN DO, SECOND IF HE DOSE'NT WANT TO HAVE INTERCOURSE GO DOWN ON HIM OR HAVE HIM GO DOWN ON YOU UNTIL YOU CUM, IT WILL BE GOOD FOR YOU AND AM PRETTY SURE HE WONT MIND,.ORAL SEX IS SOMETIMES MORE SATISFYING THAN SEX ITSELF CAUSE YOU ACTUALLY KNOW WHEN YOUR PARTNER HAS BEING RELIEVED!!

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  • littlefrog

    You have a higher sex drive than he does. There's nothing wrong with either of you, but you need to find someone who craves it as much as you do, otherwise it will put a lot of strain on the relationship...as you already know. You shouldn't have to feel deprived, and he shouldn't have be feel pressured. Just find a different boyfriend, you're not compatible.

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  • littleone

    Also, I don't like that you feel like you are the one to blame for your needs.
    I think it's awesome that you're so sexual, it's not like you want to bang him in inappropriate moments, right? (as in, in public). Then whatever. More power to ya! Soooo many men would DIE for a girl like you!

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  • 341Betty

    I'm oversized and it's a constant issue. I masturbate regularly to "supposedly" take the edge off. It doesn't work. I like an aggressive partner and it's hard to find.
    You're not the only female that feels this way. Don't give up on your wants.

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  • softboy

    I'm free for sex anytime anyway anywhere

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  • go2god1st

    Sex before marriage sucks. Wait.

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  • Senken

    well I think boys sexual stamina is much lower than girls.

    when
    I go for my happy time I know I'm only good for a 1 blow before I'm physically tired.

    masturbate. get him to buy you a dildo, buy a dildo yourself. something

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  • Lysette

    OK now I am worried. No, its not you, but you have no idea how many people have complained of so aroused they couldn't take it. There must have been over 20 on here just today.
    That's counting about 10 more that I know in real life here in past 2 days. Two of the girls here go so bad that they went out until they found some guys help out. One of those girls was married, but they both said that they had to do something.
    This must be nothing, right. I mean that's too crazy, it must be just really strange coincidence. Just in case its not, if it starts bothering that much either go to the doctor or start thinking a really good apology for your boyfriend.

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  • Well I guess you may think about compatibility but don't throw in the towel on the relationship if all that is going on is that you are the randier rabbit. Masturbation, oral sex, seductive massages, and other options are there to level the playing field.

    I think sex is just one aspect of a relationship & how you deal with it - like other areas of differences as individuals - is a reflection of that larger relationship.

    If you can talk about it, be respectful, find compromises and solutions, and even be playful joke about it because there is something larger (love) then you are fine.

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  • DiscoDuck

    No not normal at all for a female. But then when something is hard to get people want it more. And when something is easy to get people don't want it.

    To spell it out.
    Usually men always want sex [sex easy to get from men] so women don't want it.
    Usually women never want sex [sex hard to get from women] so men always want it.

    This plays out in almost every aspect of life.

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    • DiscoDuck

      I bet if your bf turned the tables and suddenly wanted sex everyday, you would not want it so much. And if he kept it up, you would not want sex at all.

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  • Jen118584

    Your boyfriend objects to you wanting to have sex every day? Weird.

    I guess it could get irritating because everyone has moments when they don't feel like it.

    You should just start masturbating before you see him, seriously. It kinda takes the edge off for a while and you might be able to give him a little rest ;)

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