Am i overreacting ?

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Is it normal that I'm mad about what my friend did.

Basically, for months I was talking about how I wanted a nose piercing, and I spoke about it to one of my friends about how I was going to get it, and she said she wanted one too.
I told her some places that we could get a deal for 2 people getting a piercing, but then quranatine happened.
And then during quranatine, she ordered a nose piercing kit and we said we were going to do it together, and she would say that shes so bored and wants to do it and I told her to wait for me so we can do it together.
And then she did it without me and I felt offended because we were supposed to do it together and then she stopped talking about me doing it,
and then she did a double piercing which I really wanted and been talking about, and then she kept showing it to me and I told her that I wanted to do it and that she copied me and she said "well you would be copying me because I did it first"

So.. am I crazy to be mad over this, or what should I do? isnt it weird that she did that or am i just overreacting?

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    It’s mildly inconsiderate towards the idea you two had, but hardly a big deal, especially once you’ve done it also.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    ... and yet another case of bitches be triflin.

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    Ah the troubles of middle and high schoolers. It's almost cute

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    Is this issue going to affect your life 1, 5, 10 years from now?

    Its not worth worrying or getting upset about something that will not affect your life in those time-frames...

    Focus on the things that will affect your life long term.

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  • Boojum
    3 years ago

    I love the breathless "and then...", "and then...","and then...". I can just imagine you hyperventilating, getting red in the face and talking faster and faster as you tear-up.

    Chill the fuck out, girl. It's a freaking nose piercing, not the start of the zombie fricking apocalypse.

    I don't know... Maybe you're one of those people who's suffering serious mental strain due to all the shit that's been going down, so this trivial thing has triggered you. There are lots of people doing similar, so don't be too hard on yourself if that's what it's really about.

    Or maybe you're just a teen going through all the normal angsty, hair-trigger mood-swings and social uncertainty that most teens have to deal with. If that's the case, take some deep breaths, tell yourself over and over that none of this really matters at all by any rational measure, and hang in there.

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