Am i obssesed with my boyfriend?

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Okay please someone help! I am going to try to make this short:
okay been dating boyfriend for 3.5 years
during 1st year got birth control got super moody and had anger management issues, constantly kept treating bf like crap and tried braking up with him alott! He always came to me.
One day close to our 3 yrs we got in an argument and i broke up with him. I always say very dumb things like i dnt want you anymore very hurtful stuff. We got together but a month later I hacked his facebook and found out he was trying to get with another girl around the time we broke up.. I told him, i broke up with him n he came begging to take him back. I did. He deleted his fb but now I feel insecure, and i feel like i always doubt him when im not with him. I get mad when im not with him, now i always want to be with him alll the time..! I wasnt like this .. N i dnt like it. I know he loves me because no matter what his the one that comes to me first all the time, but i just sometimes feel like i expect too much of him that it creates problems.. What is wrong? Any advice?

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I don't think you really love him. I think when you saw that he was pursuing another girl, you felt like you were being replaced. You got scared, and as he was pushing you away, you were trying to pull him back. It sounds almost as though you want to take control over him. You want all his attention, all his love, power over him. Push-pull relationship. Not healthy.

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    • LG5
      12 years ago

      What do you suggest I do in trying to work the push pull relationship?

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    • LG5
      12 years ago

      In a way I think you have a point. I do love him, but the push pull relationship might be true.

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  • mafiaprincess
    12 years ago

    You're a fucking moron

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Keep working on the trust issues you have!

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    • LG5
      12 years ago

      Yeah that is exactly what I need to do .Thank you

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you need to get your emotions under control and stop making rash decisions, like breaking up with him over little things. He went looking for someone else because of that. The only thing you can do is trust him, or break up for good, because its only going to be miserable for both of you from here on out if you're always suspicious. If you treat him well he won't want to go looking for someone else.

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    • LG5
      12 years ago

      From all the comments your was the most helpful one. I do believe I need to control myself, Im starting to act sweeter and let little things slide now,, thank you :)

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        You're welcome hun =) I speak from personal experience, so I know what you're going through. Good luck!

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Doesn't sound like you are good to him and he might just be in the process of realizing that. I dunno really why he wouldn't look for something better.

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  • griffinxs
    8 years ago

    Sounds like you're super jealous. Just lay back and cool down.

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  • opal-leaves
    12 years ago

    Please, just move on.

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