Am i normal to not feel anything while making out with boyfriend?

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I am 20 year old and virgin. I started pillow humbing from my 1st class without knowing what it was. I am in relationship for 7 years and i love him like anything. Recently we had our first kiss and strangely i didnt feel anthing. ya it felt good but not sparks or something Same when he sucked my breast. I am scared... I think i masturbated wrong my whole life... I tried fingering but i am not feeling anything the only way I can get off is pillow humbing with great pressure applied .I think this will effect my sex life... What i will do... I am soo scared and frustrated..i cant discuss this with anyone.. Please help me..please

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    Maybe you can use his face, close your eyes and imagine it's a pillow!! You will be coming in his mouth and soon the pillow will be replaced in your mind by his face!!

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    Use his face as a pillow

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  • CoffeeTime
    5 years ago

    It looks like you have sexual dysfunction. This is exactly the same problem guys face during sex when they are used to masturbating to porn. Orgasm can't be achieved and is possible to be cured if you visit a sex therapist.

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Um, I had that problem, watched too much porn then when I had a girlfriend I couldn't finish for an entire year, until I became adjusted.

      For me it's all about what you're thinking about and what your main focus is whilst it's happening, when I started to really focus on the sensation it gives or how she was reacting that would do it, or feeling dominant.

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      • CoffeeTime
        5 years ago

        I'm glad you recovered. It's always a problem when you masturbate too much.

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    • Alicelisa
      5 years ago

      Thank you for the suggestion..
      But its too hard for me to consult a sex therapist..
      I am in a society where i shouldnt even look at a man. Because of this only i cant discuss my problems with anyone ☹️

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      • CoffeeTime
        5 years ago

        I am curious if you live in Saudi Arabia. Anyway, keep doing and you might as well recover like acoster.

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        • Alicelisa
          5 years ago

          Ya i am Muslim. I wish i will recover

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    its a sign that its fake love

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