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Im a boy 20 years old.
I cant really be interested in a girl for more than a month maybe even 2 weeks. I really want to get interested in someone to be in a serious relationship but seams like i cant.
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It is normal. Maybe stop looking for relationships for awhile, and just get to know people first. Spend time with girls as friends first and let life take its course
don't focus on finding a girlfriend, focus on finding a best friend, and if everything falls into place maybe take it further, its better to have a strong grounded layer to start from, especially in the case of relationships, sure looks matter a lot more in short term and I'm sure you know that, but its all about fun and compatibility in the long run, anyways just my opinion, i was born under a stump what do i know
Youre probably losing interest quickly because the girls all suck. If theyre really boring or not too bright, i personally had the same problem and just stopped caring bc i know theres other ppl out there that arent idiots and you get along with very well. Keep doing what u do, maybe pick them a little wiser next time and definitely dont start "dating" until you know them fairly well and what theyre all about. People wont show their true colors within a month.
Don't expect the interest just to come to you, look for interesting things in girls. If you lose interest now it will be a lifelong habit. No one is that special, you make them special with your imagination. At least find one person that you really really like and then work your imagination on her. You don't have to settle for less.
don't stress you have plenty of time to form a more meaningful bond, especially if you want it so, someone said be best friends first and start there, i agree with that
lmao.. i have bean considering myself as a man since i was 10. and your 20 and you call yourself a boy lmao wtf dude for reals