Am i normal to feel the way i do?
I have a group of friends and over a year ago i met this guy who was part of the group before i came along. I developed a crush on him and we eventually got together and spent a year or so being in a relationship. It wasnt all peachy tho, he was quite nasty to me, and put me down alot, he also on more than one occasion told me that he wasnt attracted to me, but i told myself that he would grow to love me. He also had an extremely close relationship with a girl he worked with and they were always together, he eventually told me that he liked her and that she had a 'tight arse' but a relationship with her would never work out.
When i wasnt with him he would not be reached easliy, i would come back to his and notice used condom packets and when confronting him he told me he was masturbating but i always suspected him cheating on me with her.
I went away for my sisters graduation for 2 days and on the second night i text and called but no reply. I came back the next day and he had love bites on his neck and shoulder and claimed that this was from a badminton game.
Things then totally blew up the week after when he told me he had strong feelings for my friend and then tried to have sex with me after telling me.
THat was it , the final nail in the coffin, i had to leave him . So i said although i cant be with you anymore can i please stay till i find somewhere. But no he told me to get out of his house!
So i had nowhere to go!
almost a month on and he is being accepted bk into the group. I am so pissed off this guy really did me wrong i know i cant contorl who is friends with whom but i am not happy about it. I mean i dont want him there at all, i really feel frustrated and stressed about this one.
Is it normal to feel betrayed if your friends talk to ur ex?