Am i normal if i love my bestfriend?

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OK! Let me tell you right off the bat, im a 18 year old girl, in highschool, ok? and i have a problem. IS IT FREAKING NORMAL? No clue.

Im in love with my complete opposite. Weve been together since 9th grade.. but heres where it gets wanky in my opinion.IM IN LOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND.(hes a dude, of course). Anyway, hes been my best friend since 9th grade, and he told me when i first met him, that he was in love with me. and might i add, we are exactly alike. i didnt care really, but i felt an attraction towards him. so i made a comprimise. Knowing that id never leave Spencer, my boyfriend, i told Riley, my best friend, that if me and spencer broke up, id go out with him. I never expected that i could fall in love with Riley... I have been for the past year... so what i want to know is:
a) is it normal for me to love two guys at one time, especielly if they are so diffrent?
b) what should i do? please answer my two questions! comment ur opinions... pretty please...

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  • awkwardsauce
    11 years ago

    if you love two people, choose the second one. because if you really loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second.

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    • HisGirl2012
      11 years ago

      but how do i break up with the guy i feel like i love so much? i dont wanna hurt him...

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  • bigdaddypimpp
    11 years ago

    Go for your best friend. He got your attention so go for it.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    The heart makes room for another easily! But be careful of your choices and gentle with your breakup! Good luck with your choices!

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    • HisGirl2012
      11 years ago

      thanks, i hope i can figure it out.... i hope!

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      • ygrowup
        11 years ago

        You will, after some thought and some time passes. It is very hard to go threw life with regrets of things you didnt do or things you did. So think this matter threw and make the choice of being happy, whatever that might be. I am always here for advice if you need it.

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        • HisGirl2012
          11 years ago

          i think my only problem with Riley is that im scared hes going to cheat on me. i know Spencer would never do that to me. But Riley is such a flirt with so many girls, i dont want to get attached to him emotionally for him to go and cheat on me, ya know? Thats my hardest desicion. That and all my friends are trying to tell me that i need to pick Riley over Spencer or vice versa...

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          • ygrowup
            11 years ago

            It is great to get advice, and from friends often this can be some of the best you get. BUT only you know what is right for you and advice is just to reinforce what you already feel in your gut and your heart! And of course, you may get your heart broken with this decision, or maybe with another guy. Often people get their hearts broken several times before they can tell the keepers and true love. Good luck with your choices.

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            • HisGirl2012
              11 years ago

              ok thanks... I think, Im going to stick with Spencer... Because I know he loves me. And I love him too

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    There's a girl i know who sounds like she's in the exact same situation as you, even had a boyfriend named Riley. If anything I say just stick with your current boyfriend and if your going to cheat, then at least break up with the guy first. Also, yes it's normal to like two people at the same time.

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