Am i normal and not crazy?

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Okay. I am from Tennessee and I go to college in California. I have been insecure since highschool because I thought I was being made fun of for the way I look. So now being a junior, I still feel that I haven't made alot of friends here. I'm scared to open up because I have that fear lingering around me. Everytime I try to ask someone if they want to hang out, they say no because they are busy.

I have felt like I have been used because I am too nice. For an example, this girl, that I talk to, didn't invite me to her bday party.. but I got her alcohol like 4 times..

And the fact that I lived with my roommate last year in the dorms doesn't talk to me anymore this year when we are living in a condo. She talks to her friends when she invites them over but not really me. It seems like shes a little bit more excited everytime my other two roommates walk through the door. But when I do, I get one word, Hi.

I don't know I'm really upset and want to go back home. Am I normal?

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Based on 34 votes (20 yes)
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  • Kat444
    14 years ago

    Sounds like your social skills are a bit lacking. It takes more than being nice for people to like you. You also have to be fun and interesting. And that's hard to do when you don't have any self confidence.

    I used to be like you and worry about my looks, until I made a resolution one year to tell myself that I was beautiful every day and try to act confident. The more I acted confident, the more people liked me, the more confidence I got! I didn't chance anything about my looks at all, but changing my attitude made a huge change in my life. Just fake it til you make it.

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  • Ispeakknowledge
    13 years ago

    treat girls like shit and stand your ground and fight!!!!!!!!!

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  • Kai'Layah
    14 years ago

    Kat444 is right. I agree completely

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